Infidelity. Unfaithfulness. Cheating. It’s unfortunate. It’s devastating. It’s wretched. It’s cruel. You can try your best to make things work in a relationship; but that doesn’t always guarantee that your partner is going to stay loyal and committed to you. That’s a harsh truth that you’re just going to have to accept as early as now. Love is a tricky thing – it’s a risk. You are never really promised success and it’s always devastating whenever you fall short. Love is hard – but that’s also why it’s so great when you are able to make things work. Remember that the best things in life never come easily;
they always require a lot of time, commitment, and effort – and love isn’t any different. You are always going to have to try your best to make a relationship work; and even then, you aren’t always going to be guaranteed of favorable results. You just have to try your best and hope for the best. When you first meet someone you have a kind of chemistry with, you try to build on that chemistry. You act as a team and you try your best to make things work together. You fall in love and you become really invested in one another and in your relationship. You become attached to the idea of being together for the long-term and you become so entranced at the thought of making things work.
But then, things don’t always go according to plan. Sometimes, one of you may go astray; and you find yourself feeling heartbroken and devastated by it. You are forced to confront so many feelings and emotions that come with betrayal and unfaithfulness; but more than that, you are forced to make a decision on the fate of your relationship that you have invested so much of yourself with. It’s always messy whenever you have to deal with unfaithfulness and cheating in a relationship. And even though there’s no way for you to guarantee that your partner would never cheat on you(you can only control so many variables), you can always put yourself in the best position to not be cheated on.
That all starts with being a good judge of character. You need to know who you’re getting in bed with, so to speak. So, that’s why you always need to stay guarded whenever you are getting to know someone. Yes, to a certain extent, you are going to have to make yourself vulnerable in a relationship. You have to open yourself up if you’re going to get closer to another human being. However, that doesn’t mean that you have to open yourself up so recklessly. You need to be able to know that the person you’re actually opening yourself up to is someone you trust.
You need to be able to weed out the bad eggs early on so that you don’t open yourself up to getting hurt. This article is going to touch on certain types of people who are likely to cheat in relationships. Now, that isn’t to say that these kinds of people are definitely going to cheat on you. It’s just that they have personality traits that make them more likely to engage in infidelity even when they’re supposedly in committed relationships with you.
1. Tall boys.
2. Rock and roll enthusiasts.
3. IT professionals and workers.
4. French people.
5. People whose ages end with a “9”.
6. Obsessive shoppers.
7. Female teachers and educators.
8. People who use Twitter.
9. Men who are named Wayne.
10. Blonde girls.
Again, the people listed above aren’t necessarily going to be people who are guaranteed to cheat on you. It’s just that they have certain personality traits and characteristics that make it more likely for them to be unfaithful in a relationship. And so, if you have a very weak, fragile, and sensitive heart that is prone to getting hurt, you might as well stay away from dating these kinds of people for now. Keep yourself protected. Chances are they are only going to end up hurting you, and you want to make sure that that kind of tragedy doesn’t happen to you.
But ultimately, love is always going to be a risk; and it should always be a risk that you’re willing to take. How much of a risk you should be taking however is entirely up to you. You get to decide your own fate. You are the steerer of the ship that is your life. You control your own destiny. You get to decide how your love story is going to turn out. And even when the odds are stacked against you in love, you always have a fighting chance. Just remember that if there’s one thing in the world that is worth fighting for, it’s always going to be love.