A Relationship Expert Reveals 9 Signs That The Guy You Like Thinks Of You As Someone Special

Straight from the love gurus.

1. They always maintain eye contact whenever they’re talking to you.

The power of sight is an amazing thing and you can never belittle its value in human interactions. If you notice that your man seems to be looking at you with a kind of intensity that you just don’t get from other people, then it’s highly likely that you’ve found for yourself a guy who considers you to be special. It’s especially true if you start to notice him staring at you even when you’re not looking at him. Men often communicate more with their eyes than they do with their mouths. 

2. They always listen to what you have to say and they really remember the little details.

A guy who considers you to be a special individual will always be paying attention to whatever you have to say. And it’s not just a matter of keeping quiet and actually looking into your eyes when you’re talking to one another. You can tell that he really pays attention to you because he always brings up the littlest details about what you say which proves that he actually cares about the things that come out of your mouth. If you weren’t special to him, he wouldn’t really be as interested in whatever you have to say. 

3. They start to adopt some of your mannerisms.

On some weird subconscious level, science has revealed to s that we tend to take on and emulate the traits of the people we adore the most in this world. And if you notice that this particular guy is subconsciously stealing some of your favorite mannerisms and expressions, and adopting them for himself, then it’s likely that he has taken a special interest in you. 

4. They will be really curious about your life and your interests.

He will want to immerse himself in your life as much as possible. He will want to know as much about you as he can. He is deeply interested in your personality and he will make an effort to familiarize himself with your passions and interests as well. He sees you as a very special person and he will want to expose himself to your life to the best of his abilities. 

5. They will really try to connect with you on your mutual interests and traits.

A guy who sees you as someone special is always going to try his best to establish and build on connections with you. He will want to find any mutual interests, traits, or passions that you may share and he will use these things as platforms for building a bond with you. He will really want you to feel comfortable and easy with him and he knows he can do that if he can find things to connect with you about. 

6. They laugh a lot when they’re with you.

He knows that one of the most important aspects of establishing a strong bond with a person is being able to share a similar sense of humor. And if he is constantly laughing at your jokes, then you know that he’s definitely comfortable with you. He’s established a kind of rapport and connection with you through humor. And a sense of humor isn’t necessarily something that one can share with just about everyone else. 

7. They have a way of making you feel like you’re the only person in a crowded room.

No matter how many people there are in a room, a guy who takes a special interest in you will always make you feel like you’re the only person there. He will make it seem like he only really has eyes for you. He is going to devote his full attention to you and he will always be mindful of what you’re saying and how you’re feeling. He will be able to block out all other distractions whenever he’s with you. 

8. They always look for excuses to spend more and more time with you.

He will want to spend as much time with you as possible if he considers you to be a special person. When you’re out together, he will maximize that time to his fullest. And he won’t waste time trying to schedule another date with you. His time is valuable but he would willingly devote it to the special people in his life. 

9. They won’t waste time with trying to lock you down.

And lastly, if a man is genuinely interested in you, then he will not want to beat around the busy. He won’t want to be coy about it. He sees you as a special girl and he will want to lock you down in the fastest way that he can. But he would never want to rush you either. It’s just that he wouldn’t want to waste any time if he knows that he can try to win you over if he acts swiftly. 

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