You should choose to be with someone who is completely open to you.
You shouldn’t have to settle for someone who you know wouldn’t be able to make you happy for the rest of your life. You should only choose to be with someone who makes you absolutely ecstatic at the thought of spending the remainder of your days together. In fact, you should choose to be with someone who makes you forget about the idea of time. This person should makes you believe that the past, present, and future are all happening at once how these are parallel constructs and not linear at all. This person makes you want to live in all the past memories that you’ve happily shared together. This person makes you want to be fully present in every moment that you have with one another. This person makes you excited at the notion of a shared future together.
It doesn’t matter how far you’ve come and how fare you have yet to go. You know that this person is the right one for you and there’s nothing that can shake you from that thought.
You should choose to be with someone who makes you forget about the time whenever you’re together. It doesn’t even matter what you’re doing or where you are so as long as you’re in each other’s presence, you will always be happy. You find peace and comfort whenever you stare into each other’s eyes. You love one another a little more every day that you wake up next to each other.
This person makes you feel a sense of contentment with the life that you’re living and the moment that you’re in. This person makes you giddy and excited at the thought of spending the rest of your waking moments together. You should choose to be with someone who manages to make you believe in the realness of a magical love. This is a person who actually lifted you up from your own state of cynicism and skepticism. You never used to buy into the whole idea of soulmates and forever but this person changed all of that for you. You should choose to be with the person who gives you unlimited supplies of happiness. Because at the end of the day, that’s all any of us ever really want to be in life happy.
You should choose to be with a person who is actually deserving of the love that you are willing to give them. This should be a person who never tires of having to work for your love. This should be a person who never takes your love and your effort for granted. This should be a person who never fails to make you feel appreciated and valued in life. This is someone who will never make you feel like you’re never enough; someone who would never make you feel like you’re just settling.
You should choose to be with someone who is completely open to you. This is a person who is completely comfortable with being vulnerable to you and you alone. This is someone who doesn’t make you feel like you’re being kept in the dark. This is someone who would never be afraid to bring anything up with you. This is someone who would never shy away from talking to you about absolutely anything. This is someone who would be willing to have any conversation under the sun with you because to this person, you are everything and nothing should be hidden from you.
You should choose to be with a person who causes you to doubt. This should be a person that you could confidently place all of your faith in. This should be a person who would never betray your love and trust. This is a person who you know would have your back no matter what; a person who you know would never do anything to hurt you. You should choose to be with a low-maintenance partner. This is a person who you wouldn’t have to micromanage. This is a person who you can trust to operate on their own because you have complete faith in them.
At the end of the day, we are all deserving of the love that we envision for ourselves. You should always have to fight for that love. If you feel like it isn’t there for you yet, then you have to be patient. Don’t ever settle for a love that you feel is beneath you. Don’t settle for a love that doesn’t give you the fulfilment, happiness, and contentment that you need in life. Don’t settle for a love that doesn’t make your heart skip a bit; a love that doesn’t put a smile on your face. You should choose to be with someone you are genuinely in love with; not just someone who you just happen to be settling for.