What frightens you the most about love?

Aries (March 21 – April 19)

The part of a relationship that really scares the wits out of you is the part where you have to open yourself up. Usually, you don’t like to get caught up in drama and emotions too much. You feel like your time is too valuable for that. But you also know that that’s a necessary step you have to take if you want to get closer to someone in a relationship.

Taurus (April 20 – May 21)

The initial aspects of a relationship are often what frighten you the most. Typically, you have no problems with maintaining relationships with people who already know you pretty well. But for people who are just meeting you for the first time, it might be difficult for you to actually not intimidate them with your intense and passionate personality.

Gemini (May 22 – June 21)

The idea of being exclusive with someone is what really frightens you as a Gemini. You are absolutely frightened at the idea of having to commit yourself to a single person for the rest of the foreseeable future. You are typically a very social being who likes to surround yourself with as many different kinds of people as possible. And that’s why the exclusivity that comes with being in a relationship really scares you.

Cancer (June 22 – July 22)

The falling in love and getting into a relationship part doesn’t scare you at all. Because as a Cancer, there is already so much love inside of you that you have to give. What scares you is the idea of having to open yourself up to your partner’s social circle. It really takes a lot for you to open up to someone, and so it really frightens you to have to mingle with so many new people.

Leo (July 23 – August 22)

You are dreading the conclusion of he honeymoon phase of the relationship. As a Leo, you have a very passionate and intense personality. However, once all of that passion and excitement dies down, you will be stuck outside of your comfort zone; and that really scares you.

Virgo (August 23 – September 22)

The first sexual encounter is always going to be the most frightening aspect of being in a relationship for you. As a Virgo, sex is definitely a big deal for you. You have a reputation for being good in bed and you never want to disappoint. You put so much pressure on yourself and you always want to make sure that you meet expectations and that’s why it really scares you.

Libra (September 23 – October 22)

You know that if you’re going to get into a relationship with someone, you are going to have your fair share of fights and disagreements. And that’s what really scares you. Confrontations scare the wits out of you and you are always dreading the fights you might have with people you love.

Scorpio (October 23 – November 22)

You really fear the idea of eventually having to move in with your partner when things start to get serious between the two of you. That really scares you because as a Scorpio, you really value your privacy in life. And it would make you really uncomfortable to have to share a living space with someone because that would mean less privacy for you.

Sagittarius (November 23 – December 21)

Ironically enough, you are absolutely dreading the idea of traveling with your partner for the first time. Trips are important to you as a Sagittarius. You are a natural wanderer and you always like to go and explore the world. And that’s why you always want to end up with someone you can travel efficiently with. And if you find yourself with someone who just wrecks your trips for you, it’s probably over.

Capricorn (December 22 – January 20)

You are deadly afraid of meeting your partner’s family. As a Capricorn, you aren’t necessarily the most socially-oriented person in the world. You know that you have a tendency to rub people of the wrong way. And because you know this, it absolutely terrifies you that you might end up turning off your partner’s parents with the way that you conduct yourself during the initial meeting.

Aquarius (January 21 – February 18)

It should come to no one’s surprise that the one thing that you’re most frightened of in a relationship is actually having to say the words: “I love you” to someone – and actually meaning it. You are very much afraid to confront your own feelings a lot. And the idea of having to reveal your feelings to someone else is really scary for you.

Pisces (February 19 – March 20)

Marriage frightens you. Plain and simple. Typically, as a Pisces, people would typically assume that the idea of marriage would be something that excites you because you are known to be quite a hopeless romantic. But what they don’t know is that you put so much pressure on yourself to have that fairytale romance, and you are scared of ending up marrying someone you aren’t meant to be with after all.

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