Aries (March 21 – April 19)
You never admit whenever you’re unhappy or discontented in a relationship. As an Aries, you are so quick to say that you’re fine even when you’re not. And that’s never the right way to go about solving problems in a relationship. Whenever you’re unhappy with something, you have to be able to come right out and say it. If you keep it in, you are only making your relationship more toxic.
Taurus (April 20 – May 21)
You are far too competitive with your partner as a Taurus. In fact, you shouldn’t be competitive at all. You are partners. You are playing on the same team. It’s supposed to be the two of you against the world. Why would you want to be keeping score with your partner? Every time you do something nice for them, you make sure that they never forget it – and that’s just wrong.
Gemini (May 22 – June 21)
You are a toxic flaker. You don’t keep your promises and you don’t honor your commitments. You make it so hard for your partner to believe anything that comes out of your mouth as a Gemini.
Cancer (June 22 – July 22)
You are just a tad too clingy as a Cancer. Okay, maybe not just a tad. You are OVERLY clingy to the point that you’re just too dependent on your partner and your relationship. You should still make it a point to honor the fact that you have individual lives outside of your relationship. You can’t let the relationship be the only thing that defines you both as human beings.
Leo (July 23 – August 22)
You are far too controlling and it’s really bad for your relationship. You shouldn’t see yourself as someone who is above your partner. Yes, you are obsessed with yourself as a Leo. But when you’re in a relationship, you’re going to have to deflate that ego a little bit so that you can create more room to accommodate your partner in your life.
Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
You let your misplaced sense of jealousy get the better of you. You have to remember that just because you get into a relationship with someone doesn’t mean that you gain ownership of that person. You are both still independent human beings who have voluntarily chosen to get into a loving relationship with one another. You don’t get to control each other’s lives.
Libra (September 23 – October 22)
You are a natural problem fixer. It’s ingrained in your blood as a Libra. However, you also tend to falsely believe that you can fix people. And that’s wrong. You can’t fix human beings. First of all, you are a human being yourself and you have your own flaws to worry about. And you have no right trying to impose your standards of what you think is right on other people – especially the person you’re in a relationship with.
Scorpio (October 23 – November 22)
Your temper is just far too wild for you to be able to sustain your relationship. You have to stretch your patience a little. Your partner is an imperfect human. They are going to screw up every once in a while. And you have to make sure that you are as understanding and as patient as possible whenever that happens.
Sagittarius (November 23 – December 21)
You are just a little bit too pessimistic about your worth in life. You should stop putting yourself down because you are really bringing a lot of negativity in your relationship as well. The lower the view that you have for yourself, the worse it becomes for your relationship. You really have to be able to start seeing more of your genuine worth so that you won’t lose your partner’s respect.
Capricorn (December 22 – January 20)
You just really need to open up a little more. Just because you are so used to being independent doesn’t mean that you have to stay that way. If you really want your relationship to survive, you have to let your partner in through your emotional walls.
Aquarius (January 21 – February 18)
You are just far too nice for your own good. You let your partner walk all over you a lot and it’s not good for the relationship. You might think that you’re being selfless and that that’s a good thing. But it isn’t. You are making yourself unhappy – and your unhappiness is generating dysfunction and toxicity in your relationship. This isn’t a sustainable way of going about love.
Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
You are a snooper. You are a fantastical human being as a Pisces – meaning you tend to live in the fantasy world a lot. And as a result, when you get lost in all of your fantasizing, you end up generating drama even when there isn’t any. And so you end up violating your partner’s privacy trying to look for something that just doesn’t exist anywhere other than in your own mind.
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