I wish I knew this before.
Aries (March 21 April 19)
Just learn to commit! You scare the loves of your life away too easily because of your unwillingness to commit to them. You are always too frightened to get into anything that resembles a state of consistency and steadiness. You want spontaneity and pandemonium all the time. You are always looking to shake things up, but relationships don’t always work that way.
Taurus (April 20 May 21)
You have to learn how to be more adaptable and receptive of the ways of others. You can’t always be enforcing the it’s my way or no way at all kind of philosophy especially when it comes to love. This is how you frighten people off. You always dismiss them and their thoughts in favor of your own. You are not open enough to the ideas of others and so they don’t like being with you.
Gemini (May 22 June 21)
Your reluctance to open yourself up always ends up frightening a lot of potential romantic partners away. They have no idea if you’re some sort of secret pervert, serial killer, or kindhearted soul because you just refuse to open up about yourself. You need to learn how to let other people in if you don’t want to frighten them with your stoic demeanor.
Cancer (June 22 July 22)
Learn to let some arguments go. You don’t always have to win every single argument or debate that you’re in. You have a feisty personality and you tend to never back down from others and that’s okay. But you really have a tendency to frighten other people with your overaggressive demeanor during arguments. You have to learn how to accept a loss every now and then.
Leo (July 23 August 22)
Your need to control everything in your life and in the lives of others can be very intimidating to other people. You have to learn to relinquish control every once in a while if you really want to accommodate another person in your life. You can’t always be trying to manipulate others just to get your way. You have to understand by now that the universe doesn’t solely revolve around you.
Virgo (August 23 September 22)
You are a little bit of a perfectionist and that’s how you frighten away your potential love interests. You are always looking to make sure that your life is going on at an ideal state even when reality doesn’t permit it. You tend to lose your cool whenever things aren’t perfect or whenever your expectations aren’t being met and not many people can take that kind of pressure.
Libra (September 23 October 22)
Like an Aries, you have a tendency to give off the vibe that you’re not ready to commit. But it’s for very different reasons. You are a social creature and you always like to make sure that you are friends with everyone. But with potential mates, it just comes off like you are a very big flirt who can’t seem to commit to a single person for a long time.
Scorpio (October 23 November 22)
You are kind of vindictive and that intimidates people. In a lot of relationships, arguments and screw-ups are inevitable. But normally, couples are able to find a resolution and move on from these points of conflict. For you, it’s different. You hold a vendetta for people who have wronged you and it makes you really scary to be with.
Sagittarius (November 23 December 21)
You have a very free spirit and you value your independence. You are also inherently impulsive, and you don’t really put much thought into your actions. It’s just the way you are. And because of this, a lot of people will be frightened. They think you come off as someone who is insincere and just downright reckless.
Capricorn (December 22 January 20)
You tend to take a very pessimistic and cynical view of the world so you’re not exactly a joy to be around. Typically, people tend to be attracted to rays of sunshine, but you keep on acting like you’re a heavy rain cloud that’s just ready to release. You have to learn to lighten up if you want people to stop being afraid of you.
Aquarius (January 21 February 18)
You just look very guarded and withdrawn. You don’t look approachable and so people never like to approach you. You seem to have put up so many walls around you as a defense mechanism and so people are perpetually afraid of getting close to you.
Pisces (February 19 March 20)
You are the virtual opposite of the Capricorn. While they need to lighten up a little bit, you are the one who needs to dial things back a notch. You are always way up there with your positivity and your energy, it can be difficult for people to keep up with you. Your limitless optimism frightens off a lot of people.
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