She is going to want you to touch her ever so mindlessly and naturally while the two of you are just lounging about the house. She isn’t always going to be interested in you touching her for the purpose of it eventually leading into something else. She doesn’t always want you to be putting the moves on her so that she succumbs to your sexual advances. She is going to want you to drag your fingers ever so slightly on her face.
She wants you to be running your fingers through her hair as if she’s the most precious doll in the world. She wants you to be giving her hand random squeezes as if your heart is pumping its blood right into the palm of her hand. She wants to be able to feel like you just touch her because it feels completely natural to you; because it’s something that you would do out of habit. She wants you to touch her even when there’s really no reason for you to be doing so.
She wants you to touch her purely because it feels right for you to do so. Touching should be seen as something that is almost second-nature. It should feel completely organic and raw. And sometimes, she just wants you to touch her purely because she wants to feel the warmth of your love.
She wants you to be surprising her in your relationship no matter how long the two of you might be together. It doesn’t always have to be some kind of grand gesture that you might have seen in the movies. You don’t have to be organizing some extraordinary flash mobs.
You don’t have to be shelling out all of the money in your bank account to make her happy. She doesn’t need you to be the kind of guy who just lights up a thousand candles around her house. She doesn’t need you to be scattering a million rose petals all over her front lawn. She doesn’t need you to be standing outside her window with a guitar in your hand.
All she needs is a guy who is going to make her feel like she is actually worth giving an effort for. She just wants a man who is going to be romantic towards her. You can surprise her by making her favorite breakfast for her in the morning when she wakes up. You can surprise her by leaving her a nice little love note in her bag before she heads off to work.
You can surprise her with a nice little kiss whenever she’s feeling down. And that’s something that’s really going to lift her spirits. Even simple things like that would really be enough to put a smile on her face.
She wants you to tell her that you love her even when she least expects it. Yes, it would be nice for you to tell her that you love her during the grand moments and celebrations. But she’s going to relish just as much at the times you tell her that you love her when you’re just lying down on your bed doing your own random things.
She wants your words to feel like a comforting peck on the cheek. She wants to feel the love that you have inside of her through the language that you use when you talk to her. She wants to be able to hear you tell her that you love her because that’s practically a symphony to her ears. She wants your love to be very organic and unforced. She wants your love to be fluid and dynamic. She wants the two of you to feel effortless in the way that you love one another.
She wants you to love her just as much whenever you’re out in public. Sure, you’re really great to her when it’s just the two of you. You’re in your comfort zone. But she hopes to feel that same kind of love whenever you’re in front of your friends. She doesn’t want to be made to feel like you’re too ashamed of loving her.
She doesn’t want to be made to feel like she isn’t a woman you can fall in love with in public. She wants to be the kind of girl who you would be proud to hold hands with as you’re walking down the road. She wants to be the kind of girl who you can always smile, laugh, and have a good time regardless of where you are or who you are with.
But more than anything else, she wants your full commitment. She wants to feel like you are actually serious about making things work with her. She wants to be made to feel like she is the absolute priority in your life. She just wants to feel like you are just as invested in this relationship as much as she is.