A TikToker captured an unsettling conversation about women her date had on video.
“He was supposed to take me to dinner but changed the plan and decided just to go back to his house and watch a movie,” Madison told BuzzFeed in an interview. Madison recorded and uploaded the man’s deluded rant to TikTok about women dating men on Tinder, which looks like Shaggy’s outfit. Viewers were angry and uncomfortable with his twisted ideology after watching his video with over 1.3 million views.
Currently, Madison is recovering and says she was pressured to drink by the date. Once she realizes she wouldn’t be sleeping with him, the date accuses her of not understanding how Tinder “works.”
She got some of it on camera. TikTok starts with him explaining dating, mentioning getting to know someone better over time. He doesn’t think you can get to know someone slowly over time if you match on Tinder.
“This is how adults date,” he says. “They don’t use Tinder to date. They use Tinder to f–k.”
“OK, then in your bio, you need to say, ‘Hey, I’m just trying to f–k,” she says.
“If you say that, you’re not gonna get any Tinder matchups!”
That’s a fantastic observation. Could it mean anything about how Tinder works? Is it that people who aren’t just interested in hookups are on it?
In another video, Madison further mentions that her own bio reads “No hook ups.” She also says they spoke on Tinder for three weeks before the meeting, during which he showed her “super respectful.”
He tricks women into thinking they’re on a regular date and then acts like they’re stupid for not knowing they signed a contract with him to have sex.
To this nonsense, Madison responds, “But then you’re upfront, and you don’t pull girls back to your apartment and then get sh—y when they won’t sleep with you!”
“Fair,” he says, then he goes on to say, “But I’m telling you, this is how it works.”
Madison challenges his toxic masculinity, and he tries to tell her that what he is doing is imparting great wisdom and knowledge to “protect” her. During her follow-up video, she says he tried to remain calm while she sat down.
As soon as he sat down, she got up to leave. As she walked towards the door to leave, he followed her and said, “this is why” women are sexually assaulted.
“The worst part [about what he said] was that he didn’t feel like I had the right to say, ‘No,'” she told BuzzFeed. “That I was obligated to have sex with him because I went back to his apartment.”
“I’m in recovery, so I’ve gone through a lot of bad stuff that kind of taught me, along with therapy, to stay calm in situations like that. I knew I had a choice, but my worry was that other women in this situation might not feel like they have a choice.”
The only reason she was able to maintain her composure was the fact that she had been in much worse situations. Using TikTok, she hopes to show girls “that it’s OK to say ‘No’ regardless of the time you put into a relationship, that was my main goal in sharing it.“
There’s nothing wrong with saying no, and you’re just a j**k for insisting it’s not.
Sources:
- BuzzFeed
- Images & Featured Image via @madi_bby95 on TikTok
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This is why it should be legal to stab a dude in his d*ck after reading this. Go and pay for a pr*stitute, you cheap pathetic excuse for a “man.”
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