It’s no secret that relationships are always going to require a lot of hard work and dedication. That is especially true if you happen to be married.
But if you’re lucky enough, any of the challenges you face or the problems you encounter will always have a solution. And unfortunately, not everyone is going to be that lucky.
There are so many relationships and marriages that end up getting completely compromised as a result of cheating, infidelity, or unfaithfulness. And this article is going to focus on one particular case of a cheating wife who has a very interesting story to tell the world.
We all know that infidelity is always going to be wrong no matter the circumstances. We always automatically see the cheater as the one who is in the wrong. And we always see the other partner as the victim of the relationship.
And a lot of times, infidelity can serve as the backbreaker to even the strongest of relationships. But for this one woman, in particular, it’s not just her marriage that she needs to be fixing. She’s pregnant with her lover’s child and so that’s another major thing that she has to take into consideration.
It has made for a very complicated situation between her, her husband, her unborn child, and her lover. But how did she get herself into such a position and what should she do about it? Read more about her story by scrolling down. This is what she has to say about it:
“I have been married to my husband for around 5 years now and I can firmly say that I still love him very much. I am fairly certain that he loves me as well but there is no denying that there is some real tension in our relationship. We have had our fair share of conflicts and hurdles that we have had to overcome as a married couple.
Most of our fights revolve around the fact that he hardly ever makes time for me. This has been the case ever since we started dating. His job and career require so much of him. I understand that it’s part of being a mature adult. But I wish that he would prioritize me and the relationship every once in a while.
I always knew that he was going to focus on his career but I decided that I still wanted to marry him anyway. I was so in love with him and I felt lucky to have him in my life. In hindsight, perhaps it would have been better for us to really hash things out before I walked down the aisle. Maybe we could have worked things out and set certain boundaries for one another before we actually made a lifelong commitment to be married to each other. But alas, we were young and in love. And we thought that that would be enough. Hindsight, as they say, is 20/20.
He promised that he would slow things down a bit after we got married. We had made plans to go on a vacation after we got married but it never pushed through. He got a job offer that he couldn’t refuse and he had to get to work right away. We were forced to relocate and start a new life together. It definitely wasn’t easy for me because I was forced to say goodbye to my career, family, and career for it. And that was just the start of all the resentment that I would end up feeling for my husband throughout our marriage.
It got to a point where I felt so dismissed and dejected. I felt so undervalued. And so I decided to do more things in my own life as a way to cope with those feelings. One of the things that I did was hit the gym a lot more often. And that’s where I met Carl.
Carl was a cute guy but he happened to be in a long-distance relationship. He rarely ever saw his girlfriend and I felt like I could relate to him somehow. And that’s where we were able to fill each other’s relationship voids. To make a long story short, we ended up hooking up. And it wasn’t just a one-time thing. It happened a lot. We really enjoyed each other’s company. But it got to a point where I felt too much guilt and I decided to end it.
But here I am now, 2 weeks after I broke things off with Carl. And I’m pregnant. And I know for a fact that it’s Carl’s baby and not my husband’s. My husband doesn’t know about it and neither does Carl. I’m so confused and I don’t really know what to do. My marriage is far too fragile and I don’t know if my husband would be able to handle this news. I’m not sure how Carl would react to it either. What am I supposed to do?”
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