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Sincerity is a vast scarcity these days. That’s why it can be very difficult for a lot of women to really know whether the men in their lives have true intentions or not. Sincerity is important in a relationship because that’s the only way a person can know if a love is actually for real. People are too loose with their expressions of love these days. They can say that they love you without really meaning it. Sometimes, they will manipulate you into thinking that they love you just so they can benefit from it. That’s why trust is such a valuable thing. You can only give it to the people who are actually worthy of it. But how do you know exactly who to trust?
No relationship on the face of this earth could possibly survive when there is no honesty. People in relationships must always be honest to each other. They have to allow each other the space to speak their minds freely without fear of being judged. Once there is dishonesty and a lack of sincerity in a relationship, that is a breach of trust. Once the trust in a relationship has been compromised, then it can be very difficult to repair. Not to mention all of the emotional trauma and heartache that comes with having your trust betrayed.
And so that’s why a lot of girls will end up withholding their trust for a while. They want to know if their men are really worthy of the trust in the relationship. They want to know if their men are really sincere in their words and gestures. They want to know if their men have noble intentions. They want to know if their men have any ulterior motives.
So if you’re the kind of girl who has no idea if your man is sincere or not, then just read through the rest of this post. There are some signs that you can keep an eye out for to find out if your man really is sincere. Just make sure to be vigilant and sharp. Here are a few signals that your man is actually as sincere as can be.
1. He has no problem letting you take the lead.
If a man were really sincere about his feelings for you, then he would have absolutely no problem relinquishing control in the relationship. Men who have hidden intentions and ulterior motives are those who are always trying to manipulate and control their women. So if he is the type of guy who is okay with letting you make the decisions in the relationship, then that means he really trusts you and that he’s not trying to manipulate you at all. Be wary of those guys who never let you have a say in the relationship because they are the ones who don’t trust you or value your opinion.
2. He doesn’t fight dirty when you argue.
He never resorts to cheap character attacks or vulgar language whenever you get into arguments. He always keeps a level head and he sticks to the issue that you’re arguing about. He isn’t the type of guy who will argue with you for the sake of making you feel bad. You would know that he was really sincere about his love for you if he never made you feel like you were being attacked or harassed in any way. Even if you are arguing, he still wants to be able to create a safe space for you to be able to express yourself.
3. He makes sure that he prioritizes the relationship.
He never lets the relationship take the backseat to anything else in his life. Sure, he still spends time with his family. Yes, he is still dedicated to his job and his career. Of course, he also has a social life outside of the relationship. But if he still prioritizes his relationship a lot of the time, then you can bet that he’s really sincere about his love for you. A guy who is just playing around would never place his relationship above his own personal needs and interests.
4. He is open about his expectations in the relationship.
He is honest about you with regards to his expectations of the relationship. He doesn’t want to force you to do anything outside what is comfortable for you. He doesn’t want to rush you into anything. He doesn’t want to overstep his boundaries. That’s why it’s important for him for the both of you to discuss your expectations for each other very early on in the relationship. He doesn’t want for either of you to be blindsided by one another. If he is upfront about his feelings and expectations from you, then he’s really sincere with his intentions.
5. He doesn’t shy away from conversations with you.
It doesn’t matter whether they are easy or difficult conversations; he is willing to have them. He is a constant communicator and he always likes talking to you. He makes you feel like you are always being heard and listened to. He also has no problems expressing himself freely because he’s comfortable with you.
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