Moving on is NEVER easy, but you have to do it for your own sake. LOVE YOURSELF!
One of the hardest parts of moving on from a failed relationship is knowing that you are forced to go back to the life that you thought you had already left behind. You have to be able to face each and every day as you used to before the relationship. It’s as if you’re going back to square one and you don’t know what to do with yourself. It can be a very disconcerting experience for sure. It can be downright scary even. But you have to find solace in the fact that many people have been in your position before and they survived.
In fact, not only did they survive, a lot of them have decided to impart pieces of their wisdom for those who are unlucky enough to follow in their footsteps. So if you happen to find yourself in a particularly compromising and vulnerable position at the moment, you don’t have to fret. You will find a way to get through this difficult ordeal one way or another. As bleak as the future may seem, there is always going to be a light at the end of the tunnel. You just need to keep on pushing forward.
Don’t let the darkness of the breakup consume you and paralyze you into submission. Remember that there are many bright sides to this situation, and you just have to be able to focus on them. You have to maintain an optimistic view of things if you want to make the most of everything. Yes, it might be difficult, but that’s what this article is for. It’s supposed to inspire and motivate you to find happiness at a sad time. Here are some quotes that may help get you by:
And now I’ll do what’s best for me. John Green
When you were in a relationship, you could never make it just about yourself. Now that you’re single again, you can do everything that’s best for you.
Take a deep breath, pick yourself up, dust yourself off and start all over again.
Sure, you took a hard stumble and it may have hurt a little bit. But that doesn’t mean you need to stay down forever. Just stand up and keep moving forward.
What feels like the end is often the beginning.
It may seem like the world is ending for you at the moment. But that doesn’t always have to be the case. As they say, when one door closes, another door opens.
You can love them, forgive them, want good things for them…but still move on without them. – Mandy Hale
This is a nice philosophy to have as you’re moving on from your breakup. You don’t always have to be bitter about a failed romance. You can still be genuinely happy for the person you broke up with.
You live, you learn, and you upgrade. Unknown
Life is always going to be a collection of failures. You just have to learn how to adapt and grow as you go along the way.
Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over, it became a butterfly.
You should choose to see every low-point in your life as an opportunity for you to come back better, stronger, and more beautiful. After all, it’s always darkest just before the dawn.
For what it’s worth: It’s never too late to be whoever you want to be. I hope you live a life you’re proud of, and if you find that you’re not, I hope you have the strength to start over – F. Scott Fitzgerald
You don’t have to cry about all the time that you think you wasted. Know that every experience is valuable if you treat it as something that you can learn from.
There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind. – C.S. Lewis
One of the best ways to go about moving on is to always see a bright future; and confide in the belief that the future is always going to be better than the past.
Coffee and then the world.
There are very few things in the world that a good cup of coffee can’t fix. Sometimes, a good cup of joe can instantly brighten up your mood.
Don’t be afraid to start over. It’s a brand new opportunity to rebuild what you truly want.
Just because your relationship is over doesn’t mean it’s a bad thing. Think of it as being able to start from scratch with a blank slate. You are still in control of your life and you get to choose how things turn out for you.
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