6. Maybe he’s not the guy that you should really be focusing all your attention on.
You could get so caught up trying to get one particular guy to chase after you, you might end up blinding yourself from the quality men who are already chasing after you. Don’t limit yourself and try to see the bigger picture.
7. There is a better use of your time than getting someone to chase after you.
You could be using all of the time and effort that you devote to getting someone to chase after you and you can divert it to more noble causes. Not everything in life is about love and relationships.
8. He’s shy and you have to be the one who actually does the chasing.
Maybe the reason you have to stop forcing him to chase after you is that he’s actually shy and passive. Maybe it’s time for you to take matters into your own hands and be the one who chases after him.
9. It would be better for you to diversify your options at this point.
You’re single. Don’t limit yourself. Explore the dating pool. Try diversifying your options. Maybe there are other men out there who are worthy of your attention.
10. Your sense of self-worth and validation doesn’t have to depend on a man’s affections for you.
Your sense of self-worth shouldn’t be tied to getting a man to chase after you. You are a strong and independent woman who needs no man to feel validated or important.
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