Men have a variety of preferences in bed that they might not express openly. Inside every man, there’s a mix of both a grown-up king and an inner child. The kingly side craves respect and honor, while the inner child desires care and comfort, much like being cuddled like a teddy bear.
In a world often called a “man’s world,” there are a few things that guys desire from their girlfriends, which we’ve mistakenly seen as burdensome. Among these desires is the need for understanding and open communication, which can often be overshadowed by stereotypes. Additionally, it’s important to address the issues that can arise, such as the men’s bedroom habits women dislike, which may lead to frustration if left unspoken. By fostering an environment of support and empathy, couples can navigate these challenges together.
Here are ten things guys like in bed but won’t ask for:
1. Take The Lead
Guys enjoy when their partner takes charge sometimes. Initiating intimacy or suggesting new moves can make the experience exciting and fun. Leading the way shows enthusiasm and a willingness to explore their desires together. This dynamic not only strengthens the bond between partners but also reveals the hidden desires of men in relationships. When one partner takes the initiative, it can open up avenues for deeper communication and understanding. Exploring these desires together fosters a sense of adventure and intimacy that enhances the connection.
2. Use Your Hands Too
Using your hands while getting close can make things even more exciting. Soft touches, exploring his body, or just holding him tight can make the bond stronger. Touching shows you’re really into it and feeling the passion in that moment.
3. Don’t Fake It
Guys appreciate genuine reactions and feelings. Faking pleasure can lead to misunderstanding. Being open about what feels good and what doesn’t helps build trust and creates a more satisfying experience for both partners.
4. Cuddle Him
Intimacy isn’t just about the act itself. Afterward, cuddling provides a comforting and affectionate connection. Guys love the warmth and closeness that comes from snuggling together, making them feel special and emotionally connected.
5. Communicate
Clear communication about desires and boundaries ensures both partners are on the same page. Guys value open conversations about fantasies, preferences, and any concerns. Having these talks brings you closer and makes the experience even better.
6. Participate
Active participation in the moment is a huge turn-on. Expressing enthusiasm makes the whole thing even more thrilling. Guys love knowing that their partner is genuinely enjoying the experience and is an equal participant.
7. Be Confident
Being confident is super appealing. When you feel sure of yourself and show you really want it, things can get really passionate. A partner who’s comfortable with their own body and sexy side can make the whole experience more fun and something to remember.
8. Try Out New Things
Going on a new adventure together can feel really amazing. Trying out different ways or things to do keeps the excitement alive. Guys like it when you make an effort to keep the bedroom fun and full of surprises.
9. Smell Nice
A pleasant scent make the experience even better. Guys like partners who smell good because it makes everything feel nicer and more attractive. Using light scents or natural smells can make the time together even more enjoyable.
10. Give Him Some Good Foreplay
Foreplay sets the stage for an amazing experience. Taking time to build anticipation, through kisses, touches, and teasing, intensifies the connection and pleasure. Guys love when their partner is invested in creating a passionate and satisfying encounter.
Got any thoughts on these secret likes? We’d love to hear from you!
You have nailed it.👏👏👏👏👏👏
As usual guys don’t want much do they!
No we don’t Anna ,, and if that was a shot at being sarcastic ,, women want all that and more !!!
That attitude will get you nowhere! If you are single, I can understand why. Some of us guys put in just as much effort.
no they dont, they just want someone as invested in the act as they are. Obviously you haven’t found the right man for you if your whole opinion is based on how much you have to put in.
Perfect!
This goes for both sides not just men, women like all of those things also & some have a hard time asking.
yes especially when your told what you want doesn’t matter.
Why give yourself to a man like that? Know your value, lady!
Exactly!
I guess it depends on the person, I’ve been most of these things and it’s just like hurry up…so idk about all these advice….it’s good but people are built differently.
My current boyfriend feels like you do. His exes have always just cared about themselves and told him to hurry up. That’s your sign that you’re with a selfish partner, and they aren’t “the one.” Keep looking! one day you’ll find the one meant for you! Good luck!
Very true! Example: ” Try new things” led to my ex screaming “Where did you learn that????” Um, I ACTUALLY saw it in a movie.
I already do these things as he does as well! I have the whole package! I am a very lucky woman
Nailed it!! Love this!
Finding out what is his/her fantasy,
make it even more exciting and acknowledge his / her wish
Aloha 🌺 Leinani
Not true because I do these things and more to my man and he goes to another woman and give her what I want for him
Don’t sell yourself short. If he runs now he’ll continue to find validation with another woman. Be better do better don’t stay stuck woman
same here! I feel you sis, it’s the worst feeling
what are u doing girl?? I hope by now u have seen the light and have finally gotten rid of him. let them other women keep him. know your worth hun & never beg for love. I’m sure there’s a perfect person out there for u who would love to pleasure u the way u do that lowlife you’re with. or even spend some time being single??
To a high value man it would work well however to those cheaters, would still prefer messy stuff with their mistresses.
Some of this is spot on but the rest he is not. I’m all for exploring and investing and even trying some real new things to add even more spice. I don’t know if it’s me or what…I just know he can activate me with just a look or smell of his cologne. He’s that special to me
“Activate” had me rolling, love it!!
Know what you mean just thinking about what my fella does to me sets me off, dont have to touch me even makes me orgasm at the tgought 😁
yes this has happened to me alot too..but mainly all my man has to do is lick my ear OMFG I love it. when he does this I’m all his lol 🤣
my ears tooo i get O…
Great info love it
I do that all 😉
Exactly right!
I agree with all these.
This also applies to a woman !! Reverse it and it’s the same. Some guys are so lame in bed. They have NO IDEA
wow I understand now the reason why my exs wants me back!😜😜 don’t mind me,,I am just saying 😂😂
I enjoy going down on my man and I love my boobs caressed
wow! that’s wonderful
Ladies! Don’t be a dead fish in the bed. It’s that simple.
Thank you.
I really need this!!! I’ve healed & ready to get back on the ‘horse”, after 10+ years!!!
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
100% accurate
My ex-wife could not have checked off any of those boxes.
I don’t know ladies, this is to the ladies that have a problem pleasing their man.
I love to please my partner. My partner also love pleasing me. I don’t see any problem or there should never be any issue of pleasing your man. When you please your man in the right way, if is already good to you,good will come even more so.
If you feel as if you just ain’t going to please your man,he will wonder to someone who will. I’m Just Saying💯