The female. Don’t worry, guys. They aren’t necessarily as complicated and as difficult as you would initially think. In fact, while all girls are different with their own distinct and unique personalities, a lot of them are going to share the same principles and standards when it comes to picking a suitable mate. So if you’re looking to win over the heart of a girl who you happen to be infatuated with, don’t fret. There is a way for you to get what you want. You just have to make sure that you are confident and sincere with your intentions. And you also have to make sure that you’re actually willing to put in the effort and the work that’s necessary to win her over.
So once you’re sure that your heart is in the right place, then you can make your move. Here are 12 keys to making a girl fall in love with you.
1. You do most of the planning in the early relationship.
A girl always likes a man who knows how to take the initiative. If you ask her out on a date, then make sure that you already have everything all planned out. Don’t ask her out and then expect her to think of an itinerary for the both of you.
2. You make it a point to listen to her when she’s talking.
Communication is a two-way street. It’s not enough that you are expressive and animated when you talk to her. But you also have to make sure that you are paying attention to her when she’s expressing herself. Really listen to her and hear what she has to say.
3 You allow yourself to be vulnerable and open to her.
Bare your soul to her little by little. Of course, it’s understandable for you to want to keep some of your walls up. But you’re eventually going to have to let her tear those walls down if you really want her to trust you and fall in love with you in the long run.
4. You are generous and thoughtful in the bedroom.
It shouldn’t be all about your own personal pleasure and satisfaction in the bedroom. You can’t afford to be selfish with her. If she’s willing to have sex with you and give you pleasure, you have to be able to reciprocate that kind of generosity with her as well. Make sure to show her a good time and don’t just be thinking about yourself.
5. You cook meals for her.
Sure, it’s nice if you would buy her some of her favorite food from fancy restaurants. But it’s something else entirely when you actually put in the time and effort to cook something up for her when she’s hungry. It will make her feel like she’s really being taken care of.
6. You go shopping with her.
Shopping might not be your most favorite thing to do but it will mean a lot to her when you are willing to spend time with her even if it meant you doing something you don’t like doing. It shows that you are more committed to the relationship than you are to your own personal desires.
7. You let go of the need to act macho and hard all of the time.
Some boys mistakenly think that the key to making women fall for them is to act like they’re the most macho men on earth. Girls like a guy’s sensitive side so don’t be afraid to showcase that aspect of your personality.
8. You make compromises for the sake of the relationship.
A relationship will always require a healthy dose of compromise. You can’t win everything and you should always be willing to meet her halfway if you want her to fall for you.
9. You take an avid interest in health and fitness.
Health and fitness are all the rage nowadays. There’s just something incredibly attractive about a man who knows how to take care of himself in a physical capacity. It’s also part of being a smart and mature adult who understands the importance of keeping fit and strong.
10. You practice intimacy with her without having sex.
You caress her. You hug her. You kiss her. You whisper sweet nothings into her ear. You know how to be intimate with her without necessarily having sex. Intimacy is always going to be important in starting and maintaining a relationship.
11. You make an effort to make her friends and family fall in love with you.
You know just how important her friends and family are to her. And so you consider it of utmost importance to yourself to make her friends and family fall in love with you as well.
12. You put her in her place whenever necessary.
And lastly, girls don’t like men who are doormats. Show her that you can be strong buy actually putting her in her place whenever she’s wrong. She needs a moral and emotional compass sometimes; and you have to be that for her.