1. Your instincts are telling you that even though you have so many other options, you don’t want to be entertaining any of them. Yes, there are so many other fish in the sea; but that doesn’t matter much to you. You want this particular fish; and you want to fight to make sure that you get to keep this fish in your life no matter how hard or difficult it might be to do so.
2. Whenever your thoughts turn to the idea of your partner actually being with someone else, you feel your insides start to dissolve into acid. You hate it. You get sick and you just want to erase that thought from your mind. You are incredibly possessive of your partner and you want to make sure that you are their only significant other – that no one else should ever come close.
3. The idea of being single again doesn’t really excite you or appeal to you. You aren’t really interested in putting yourself out there anymore. You don’t want o be back on those dating apps and hooking up with random people. You know that you’ve already found the one you want to be with forever; and you just don’t want to be throwing that away.
4. When you are trying to envision a future for yourself, you just can’t manage to do so without thinking of your partner being there with you as well. It’s as if you’re virtually incapable of having a future without this person next to you. You don’t want a future wherein you are forced to face the world alone or with another partner. You want the person that you’re already with.
5. When it comes to wasting time; you never use the word “waste” when you’re with this person. The two of you could just be lounging around the house in your pajamas all day and you would still be able to consider it a productive day. You always LOVE spending time with this person even when you aren’t really doing the most amazing things. Even when you’re fighting, you don’t really mind; so as long as you both are still in each other’s lives.
6. You have a broken relationship that has seen its fair share of battles. And you have had some pretty epic fights. But even though things have gotten really intense between the two of you, neither of you have ever really gone overboard. You still make it a point to always stay conscious of what you’re saying. You always make it a point to watch your words because even though you’re angry, you still ultimately care about the person that you’re fighting with.
7. You adore the familiarity that comes with being with your partner. Even something as simple as having their natural scent and fragrance around all of the time has become very comforting for you. You are able to find peace, safety, and sanctuary in this person even when your relationship has been particularly less than ideal lately.
8. You hate each other at the moment. You are really angry at one another. And there might be even times wherein you just want to rip each other’s heads off. But even when you’re both at your angriest, you still always stay cool enough to maintain your respect for one another. You know that your respect for each other is always going to endure; that it is always going to be uncompromisingly strong.
9. If you’re still physically attracted to your partner, then that’s definitely something that is worth holding on to. There are so many couples that just stop making an effort with how they look for one another; but if you’re still able to maintain that simple luxury in your relationship, then that’s always a good thing – no matter how broken your relationship might be.
10. Okay, so there hasn’t been much smiling in your relationship lately – and that’s why it’s broken. But you still can’t deny the fact that your partner is always going to have the power to make you smile. Your partner is someone who always manages to bring brightness and joy into your life so as long as they put a little more effort into it.
11. You are still proud to have your partner at your side whenever you are out in public together or when you’re interacting with other people. You still have a partner that you can look at and be proud of. This isn’t a human being you would want to hide or separate yourself from. In fact, you want to be as close and as attached to this person as possible – even when things aren’t going so well in your relationship.
12. You don’t really find it nice when other people flirt with you. Why? Because you’re only ever really interested when one particular person is flirting with you. And that’s your partner.
All of the point I read here are all true about my relationship presently, but does this mean i should keep trying to make things work even with the constant hurt i get from him? Cause am honestly tired of trying tho
if you dont mind me asking… how is he hurting you? If he has been unfaithful, that can be a painful thing to deal with. Alot of times for men, men can have no emotional connection for the woman and it is just about sex. So it is not that he has feelings for someone else, but that can say alot about your relationship… it means something is lacking in your relationship, maybe your emotional connection has weakened, lack of intimacy… something you would have to talk about. This doesn’t excuse the behavior, I’m just explaining how it is for a man because it is different for woman. A woman normaly needs to feel something for the man she is with, a man can feel nothing for a new woman and still have sex with her. I dont believe in cheating, i think if you want to still sleep with other woman before you get in a committed relationship, that needs to be communicated with the woman so she can decide if she still wants to be in the relationship.
Well, Hopefully that is not what you are dealing with… but whatever the problem is, it is best to talk to your man. Sometimes men can be oblivious to your feelings and they need you to communicate what is wrong.
This fits me perfectly and I am sharing with him.
Does giving ur husband enough six’s is good for ur relationship
yes of course! keep your man happy and he will want to do the same. More importantly, dont let him always be the one to initiate first. Men like it when you show interest that you want them too!
thank you
Wooowee I needed this read. Things have been straight brutal for the last few months. Just wish I could actually be heard and understood.