Don’t just wait…
Remember that you don’t always have to be waiting idly by for a man to walk into your life. Yes, you are desperate for a relationship, but you can’t let desperation paralyze you into inactivity. You still have to be able to keep yourself busy. You can’t let the fact that you’re still single be the reason for you to just be waiting in the wings. You can’t afford to just let life pass you by. You can’t afford to be a mere spectator in your own life. You have to take an active role in your life. You need to be able to take ownership of every day that the universe gives you. There is nothing productive or noble about just sitting and waiting around for a guy to walk into your life. Yes, your patience is admirable, but your inactivity is not.
Your man is eventually going to come and your patience is going to be rewarded. You are going to meet the love of your life and you are going to spend a lifetime of love and happiness together. You are both going to complete each other and it will be the best thing you will ever experience. You will thank yourself for being patient and you won’t stop grinning from ear to ear whenever you’re together. But for now, you should still wait. But again, waiting doesn’t have to mean that you don’t do anything for yourself. You can still be productive while you wait. You can still be useful.
But just in case you don’t know how to make the most of your time, then you should read on until the end of this article. Here are a few things that you could keep yourself busy with while waiting for your soulmate to walk into your life.
1. Listen to Taylor Swift.
Or Beyonc. Or Lady Gaga. Or some good old Miley Cyrus. Maybe some Kendrick Lamar or Chance the Rapper even. Listen to whatever floats your boat. The point is that you listen to music that soothes your soul. Music has the power to always alter your mood and enrich your spirit. Make sure that you listen to the kind of music that you love. Get lost in the lyrics and stories of other people.
2. Hit the gym.
Get your fitness on. Your body is a temple and you need to be taking better care for it. And if you’re so desperate to have a man fall for you, then going to the gym isn’t going to be a bad idea at all. Remember that it’s easier for men to love girls who already love themselves. Love yourself by cherishing your body. Find a fitness regimen that you like and something that works for you; stick to it. You will end up being a lot happier and you will love yourself for it.
3. Get lost on the internet.
The internet is an amazing place to get lost. There are plenty of things that you can pick up with just a few single searches. Remember that in the modern age of information, ignorance is a choice. Immerse yourself in educational videos or reading materials. Take some online courses. Catch up with your closest friends. Read up on current events. Or go ahead and watch some cute doggy videos. The internet is a great place for you to waste your time on.
4. Hang out with your friends.
Friends are important. They are going to be there for you regardless of whether you are in a relationship or not. So while you are still waiting for your man to walk into your life, make sure that you are building and maintaining all of your closest friendships. Never underestimate the value of having a solid group of friends you can turn to for help or advice at any time.
5. Immerse yourself in activities that bring joy to your heart.
It doesn’t matter if these activities are alien to you or not. The point is to just immerse yourself in them so as long as they make you happy and they add value to your life. Some examples would be to go on enriching vacations to unfamiliar places and expose yourself to different cultures and values. You could also try out some new hobbies like reading or learning how to play a musical instrument. These are all things that could add value to your life while making you happy and stimulated at the same time.
6. Go on a Netflix binge.
Ah the wonders of technology. Netflix is such a wondrous piece of technology indeed. You have a library of television shows that you can engross yourself in. Maybe you could watch a few documentaries to make yourself more educated and aware. Maybe you could watch some comedies to add some color and humor to your life. The choice is yours.