5. You have different life goals.
If you show an unwillingness to compromise and meet each other halfway when it comes to your life goals, then things are never going to work out no matter how much you might love one another.
You always need to have that willingness to merge your goals if you have fundamental differences. It’s all about being able to compromise your personal selfish needs for the sake of the relationship.
6. You try to fix him or change who he really is.
Just because your man loves you and shows a willingness to do anything for you doesn’t mean that you get to take advantage of that. You should never make your man feel like he isn’t enough for you.
You shouldn’t be making him think that you want him to fundamentally change who he is. You always want to make sure that he feels loved for who he really is on the inside.
7. You act too needy or clingy in the relationship.
It’s always a problem whenever you act too clingy or needy in your relationship with your guy. Just because he loves you doesn’t mean that he’s going tow ant to spend every single waking second of his life with you.
You have to be able to give him the space that he needs to breathe and be his own person. If not, you’re going to risk suffocating him and driving him away from you.
i’m guilty
Oh well, this will weed out the men who don’t really love that woman. Better he goes than make her miserable with half-ass effort & self-centeredness.
I cannot second this hard enough. Spot on, 💯
I second that!
I notice that the writer frames all these reasons as being somehow the woman’s problems to avoid/solve! If a grown adult leaves someone they love for someone who just ticks the boxes, that is their decision (to regret later).
Yes! Why is it all on her if they struggle to compromise? Why is it always the women standing accused of being unreasonable and never the men?
I think appreciated Hase to go both ways .. your equal.. not compaction.. and communication is key .
Excessive “My TIME” and lack of communication.
I met a emotional matured and stable guy who is 8 years younger than me age was never an issue. We made it clear from day one that both of us are not again interested to marry for a 2nd time both were married before. we were deep in love till 2 friends point out their concerns.Although he said I am the person he always wants, we broke up but are still platonic friends. I am heartbroken.
Feeling appreciated , no manipulation, open mindedness goes along way, meeting halfway, and like someone else mentioned communication is paramount!
For me, it was that l no longer felt appreciated, mostly negative interactions ,and different life goals. Also felt like a low priority.l hope these posts help other people in a positive way. As they touch on the heart strings. But l don’t fear being honest and open about feelings.✌️