8 Signs He’s Going To Be Good In The Bedroom

Who says you can’t judge a book by its cover?

They say that you’re not supposed to judge a book by merely looking at its cover. So does that carry over into how we judge the men that we meet as well? What if someone told you that you could tell just how good a guy is going to be in the sack based on how he acts in his everyday life? Would that be something that you might be interested in? Of course, it would be! Who are you even kidding?

There are plenty of little observances that you can make which can help you find out if a guy is going to be a master in between the sheets. And you won’t even have to feel his touch to tell if he’s going to be good in bed. It’s all very subtle, and so you’re really going to have to make an effort to be attentive and vigilant. It can be something as simple as him doing a seemingly normal gesture for you, so you really have to pay attention. Keep in mind that the guys who are the best in the bedroom are often those who aren’t so forward and $exually suggestive.

1. He is generous and thoughtful.

If he is an inherently generous and thoughtful individual, then that’s always a good sign. It shows that he is going to be keeping your personal needs and pleasures in mind as well. He won’t be too caught up just thinking about what pleasures he is going to derive out of the experience. He is also going to be thinking about what he can do to make your experience with him worthwhile as well.

2. He is a really great listener.


He makes it a point to hear out whatever you have to tell him. He is always going to be open-minded. He won’t shut you down and he really takes into consideration whatever is on your mind. He doesn’t act dismissive of your feelings and thoughts.

3. He is a great kisser.

A kiss is important. It’s often the act that gets things started in the bedroom. And you always want to make sure that you are starting things on the right foot. You don’t want to start of a $exual experience with a bad kiss. You don’t want to be setting the bar so low. A great kiss can set the bar high, and you can just move higher.

4. He espouses a certain sense of confidence without being arrogant.

Confidence is key. If he believes in himself, then that’s always a good sign for you. You don’t want to end up sleeping with a man whose insecurities will get the better of him. But you also don’t want a man who is too arrogant to the point that he just talks a big game but he doesn’t really walk it. A moderate amount of confidence is always a good thing.

5. He makes eye contact with you.

Eye contact is important. It shows that he trusts you and that he’s willing to be vulnerable with you. It shows that he wants to connect with you in more than just a physical manner. He really wants you to see who he is – his true and authentic self. He wants you to know that he’s being genuine.

6. He is a great dancer.

Not only is dancing just an inherently $exy activity, but you can always tell how great a guy is going to be moving in the bedroom with the way he moves on the dance floor. Great $ex is always going to have a lot of grace that comes with it. And if he carries himself with grace while he’s on the dance floor – then he’s probably going to carry himself with a lot of grace as he’s in the bedroom as well.

7. He knows where to put his hands when he kisses you.

Do his hands immediately travel to your butt or breasts whenever you are locked in a kiss? Then that’s a bad sign. It means he’s rushing and that he can’t really control himself. But if he takes things slowly and he knows just the right spots on your body on which he can place his hands as he’s engaged in a kiss with you, then this is a man who knows what to do with his hands in the bedroom as well.

8. He stays physically fit.

Physical fitness is important in $ex. Why? Well, at the base of it all, $ex is a physical act. The best kinds of $ex always involve rigorous physical activity. So it’s always going to be a plus if you have a strong, flexible, and agile guy. He will be able to get into certain positions that can maximize the pleasure for both of you. And if his stamina and endurance are on point, he won’t get so tired too easily.

  • Pay attention to his attitude towards $ex. Does he seem to see it as a purely physical act, or does he seem to enjoy the emotional connection as well?
  • Ask him about his fantasies. What does he dream about doing in the bedroom? This can give you a good idea of what he’s into and what he might be good at.
  • Pay attention to his body. Is he in good shape? Does he seem to take care of himself? This doesn’t necessarily mean he’s going to be good in bed, but it’s a good sign.
  • Trust your gut instinct. If you have a feeling that he’s going to be good in bed, then go with it! You know yourself better than anyone else, so trust your instincts.

Ultimately, the best way to find out if he’s going to be good in bed is to just get in there and see for yourself! But if you keep an eye out for these signs, you’re more likely to have a good time.

Here are some additional tips that you can follow:

  • Don’t be afraid to ask for what you want. If you’re not enjoying something, speak up and let him know. He’s not a mind reader, so he won’t know what you want unless you tell him.
  • Be open to trying new things. If you’re both willing to experiment, you’re more likely to find things that you both enjoy.

Have fun! $ex is supposed to be enjoyable, so relax and enjoy the experience. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself or him.

What Makes a Good Lover? Ask Yourself These 5 Questions

  1. What are some other signs that someone is not going to be good in bed?
  2. How important is communication in a good $ex life?
  3. What are some ways to be a better lover?
  4. What are some things that should be avoided in the bedroom?
  5. What are some tips for having a good $ex life?


These are just a few signs that he’s going to be good in the bedroom. Of course, there’s no guarantee that he’ll be amazing in bed just because he exhibits these qualities. But if you’re looking for a partner who is likely to be a good lover, these are some things to keep an eye out for.

You tell us: What do you think are some other signs that someone is going to be good in bed?

  1. I want the one guy with all of these quality’s not eight guys each with one of the qualitys.

    Guess I will be single forever 😒

  2. Í suppose ím one of the lucky ones Ladies because My Man Mike has all of those qualities and then some , I’m gonna say that I’m extremely grateful, thankful, blessed and some shit , cause My Man is all about pleasing me , more than he is himself ,

  3. Ànd some móré shit He défíñàtély has ñó complaíñts fróm me ,He definitely knows what He’s doing in the bedroom and then some don’t you baby… í just want to say Thañk yóú my Lóve fór ñot béiñg óne óf the male shólvenest sélfísh pigs añd yóú alwàys pleasure me íñstéad óf thinkiñg of yourself pleasuring me is your pleasure So again Thañks Babe I Love 💕 You

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.