Is your relationship the envy of other people?
Love can be such a slippery slope and it can strike at whatever age. You could be in your mid 40’s or in your teeny high school years. Once love strikes, you have almost no control of the situation. For those who are lucky enough, you manage to find a love that works for you. You manage to get yourself in a relationship with someone who complements you well. Things start getting serious between the two of you and everything still feels very natural and unforced.
Your love is as organic as the trees that grow in the forest. You are living proof that a romantic clich can still exist in the modern world. You finish each other’s sentences and you can communicate to each other without even saying a world. You have this uncanny way of knowing how the other is feeling just by looking at them.
You have to understand that at this point, those who aren’t as lucky as you will be looking at your relationship for inspiration. Some will take a more envious approach when they’re seeing your relationship from the outside. It’s okay. Your relationship is the picture of absolute bliss and it’s something everyone wants for their own lives.
Here are some signs that your relationship is the envy of other people:
You’re not that annoying couple that’s constantly posting selfies or kissing pictures every day. You’re more subtle about your social media PDA. You rarely post pictures of yourselves and you always reserve your posts only for the most special occasions. But when you do post, people find it absolutely adorable and you get serious comments and likes from your friends. Everyone can’t help but love you as a couple because you’re not tacky with how you conduct yourselves.
2. People will try to test your relationship by starting up some drama.
Like anything else that’s worth having, people will try to test the best things about your life. If your relationship is doing well, then you can expect some people to try and start up some drama because they’re bored with their own lives. Don’t give in to the Hey, don’t you think your boyfriend and Stephanie are a little too close for comfort? Doesn’t that upset you? Your relationship is so much stronger than weak drama like that.В – Continue reading on the next page
3. You hear some really weird rumors that are being spread about you as a couple.
You’re pregnant. You’re secretly seeing other people on the side. You’re actually going through some tough emotional problems right now. Yup. You can expect rumors like these to sprout out from everywhere. It’s perfectly normal. Just keep on carrying what you’re doing. You have a love that’s strong enough to withstand these absurd rumors.
4. Your PDA is classy and not trashy.
You do partake in PDA, but it’s not the trashy make out in front of your friends kind of PDA. It’s the subtle and intimate kind. He puts his arms around your shoulder. You rest your head on his chest. You hold each other’s hands while walking. He kisses you on the forehead. Trust us. It’s absolutely adorable and you look very cute when you’re doing it.
5. You get snubbed from parties and events sometimes.
Sometimes, people get miserable by looking at how happy you guys are. Also, they don’t need your cheesiness in their sad lives so they tend to not invite you to parties and group outings anymore. Don’t take it personally. It’s only because you’re in possession of something special that they don’t have.
6. Your single friends still flirt with either one of you as if they still have a chance.
People will try to break you apart. They’re not only jealous of your relationship. They’re jealous of your partner. They want to experience what you’re having and they think the key to getting to that level of happiness is to get into a relationship with either one of you.В – Continue reading on the next page
7. People come to you for relationship advice.
You’re practically the go-to couple for relationship advice. People want what you have and they go to you for tips. They want to know your secrets for making your relationship work so well. They need to know how you were able to land the perfect partner because they’re practically desperate for what you have.
8. Your relationship issues are petty compared to the problems of your friends’ relationships.
Friends hate hearing about your problems in your relationships because they’re not really problems at all. They’re more like minor speed bumps that have no lasting effects on your relationship as a whole. You have it so good, that other relationships’ best days don’t even come close to your worst days.
9. People tell you that they’re jealous of your relationship.
The number one sign for people being jealous of your relationship is when they let you know about it. Be flattered. Be thankful. Not everyone is as lucky as you to have ended up where you are with your partner.
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