4. They get physically intimate with you.
They don’t shy away from getting physically intimate with you. They know that physical intimacy is essential to further strengthen the emotional bond that you have as a couple. That is why they don’t really hold back when it comes to physical displays of passion and affection.
5. They always treat you with respect.
They would never malign you or demean you in any manner. They always make it a point to treat you with love and respect. They will always make you feel like you are someone whose dignity should always remain intact.
6. They never walk away from fights with you.
You are with someone who never walks away from fights with you because they never want to stop fighting for this relationship. They understand that you can’t just shove your issues aside or sweep your problems under a rug. They are so invested in the relationship that they will really take an active part in resolving the problems that you have.
Lately, I have not been the best husband to my wife. It seems like the trust and that bond we had has been broken, and it is all my fault. When I got news of our reassignment, I held back out of fear and our marriage nearly ended when she found out. Then came the gift card scam in which I allowed myself to be a victim. And buying a money pit of a house was the icing on the cake. Now my wife does not trust me with money anymore…she doesn’t trust me with anything, period. I just need advice on how to rebuild the trust and the bond we once had as right now, it feels like we are house mates with kids.
You need to rebuild the trust, but you also must communicate clearly with her about what you need. And if that trust, which we do need as men (we need to be respected and appreciated), you need to tell her that’s what you need. You’ll need to own your mistakes and maybe work on including her in decisions more until the trust is rebuilt.
They have the maturity to walk away when angry, then come back and calmly discuss the problems to work out a solution.
yes true