Confessions of a man.
As a woman, you would always have a tendency to wonder about what it is you could do to get a man to fall in love with you. You ponder about the facets of your personality and your character that make you attractive. You think about the many weapons in your arsenal and the many strengths of your personality that you would want to showcase. You watch all of those romantic movies that Hollywood seems to keep on churning out. You read all of those romantic love stories in an effort to pick up some tips and tricks of the trade. But you have to understand that real life is so much more different than fiction. Fiction has structure, order, and predictability. The real world will be less predictable.
You can’t possibly force yourself to be someone who is perfect all the way. That’s just unreasonable and implausible. As human beings, we are all inherently flawed and we can only really make do with whatever we’re given. We just have to make it a point to be the best possible versions of ourselves and that should be enough for the people we love and the people who love us. The best kind of love is the one that’s unconditional the one that accepts us for who we really are. True love can be hard to find. In fact, you might have probably even found yourself feeling particularly discouraged especially when you’ve had a string of bad dates. Don’t fret.
There are plenty of quality men out there who are just waiting to be found. They are the ones who will love you unconditionally and treat you the way that you want to be treated. But for now, you’re just going to work on yourself and your own personal character. But what is it that actually makes a man fall for a woman? Well, there is no definitive answer because all men are going to be different. But here are some examples straight from the men themselves.
1. You rest your head on his shoulder or his chest and you make him feel like you find safety in him.
It makes him feel very strong and reliable whenever you do this to him. Most men will always want to feel like they can take care of their women. If you make him feel like you’re cared for when you’re with him, he will love that.
2. You smile even when it’s difficult to do so.
A man is always going to be more attracted to the girl who is smiling than the girl who is frowning. It’s as if your own happiness is infectious and it makes him happy to see you happy as well.
3. You let your hair down whenever it’s just the two of you.
There’s just something incredibly sexy about a girl who is able to just let her hair down especially when she’s so used to tying it up into a pony tail.
4. You make talking and constant communication so easy and fluid like a hot knife running through butter.
Communication is such a huge aspect of a relationship because it’s through talking where two people are able to most effectively build their emotional connection. If you manage to make talking so easy for him, then he’s surely going to be smitten with you.
5. You don’t demand that he take you out on the fanciest and most luxurious dates.
A low-maintenance girl is always going to be a plus. Yes, a man loves to be able to take care of his woman. He wants to be able to buy her anything that her heart desires. But he would also love to know that his woman doesn’t need much in this life other than love.
6. You actually make an effort to get his friends to like you.
His friends are a big deal to him. And when you make him feel like they’re a big deal to you as well, he’s going to absolutely love that.
7. You still work relentlessly at achieving your little goals and big dreams.
You don’t let him or your relationship define who you are as an individual. You still have your individual goals and dreams and you are still going to work very hard at trying to achieve them the best way that you can.
8. You make him feel like you pay attention to what he’s saying.
A man is rarely ever going to be expressive, but if you manage to make him feel like you really pay attention to him, it’s going to entice him to open up to you more.
9. You don’t hide your happiness whenever he’s around you.
At the end of the day, a man is always going to want to make his woman happy. He wants to be able to bring a smile to the face of the woman he loves the most. And if he sees that he is able to make you happy, he’s going to be happy as well.
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