Question:
My girlfriend (24F) and I (26M) shared four happy and positive years together. We met in college and hit it off immediately. We’ve been through a lot together, and we’re still going strong. I can’t imagine my life without her by my side. She’s my best friend and my confidante. I’m so grateful to have her in my life, and I can’t wait to see what the future holds for us together.
I and my sister(28F) have always been close. We have always looked after one another. We are only two years apart in age, so we have always had a lot in common. When one of us got into trouble, the other would always be there to help. We would always have each other’s backs, no matter what. Even now, as adults, we are still very close and look out for each other.
I am worried that my sister has feelings for my girlfriend. It started when I caught her staring at my girlfriend while we were talking. And then I noticed that she always tried to be around us when we were together. She even offered to help us with chores around the house. I don’t want to say anything to my sister because I don’t want to make things awkward between us. It’s important to note that my sister is bisexual.
Should I confront my sister about this? I don’t want to ruin our relationship or make things bad between my sister and my girlfriend.
Our Response:
If you think your sister has feelings for your girlfriend, it would be best to talk to her about it. It’s possible that she may not even know that she’s giving off these signals, so having a conversation with her could help clear the air. Plus, it’s always better to have an open line of communication with your family, especially regarding relationships. Good luck!
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