4. He doesn’t put much effort into the relationship in general.
He’s not really invested in making things work with you. He doesn’t care enough about your relationship to actually put effort into making it work. He’s not really the kind of guy that you can count on to help pick up the slack. You are constantly made to feel like you have to be the one who is carrying the relationship.
5. He never checks up on you when you spend time apart from one another.
He doesn’t really think about you whenever you’re not together. He’s not all too concerned about what you’re doing when he’s not around – and it’s likely that he doesn’t want you to know what he’s up to when you’re not together either.
6. He doesn’t make you feel like he has your back.
He doesn’t really come off as the type of guy who would help you through your most vulnerable moments. He’s not the kind of guy who is going to help pick you up whenever you stumble. In fact, you’re not even sure that you can rely on him to be there for you in the times when you need him the most. He just doesn’t do anything to make you feel safe or secure.
