You deserve to be in a relationship with someone who is actually proud to be with you. You need to be with the person who would never be shy about showing you off to the world and proclaiming you as the love of their life. You deserve to be with that one person who is going to shout to the world just how lucky he is to have you in his life.
He should be a guy who really knows your worth so that he never ends up taking you for granted. He should be a guy who looks at you as if you are the only girl in a crowded room.
You need to be with someone who is going to hold you with the protective strength of a lion but also the gentleness of a flower. You need to be with someone who makes you feel like you are the most beautiful creature in all the universe.
You need to be with someone who convinces you that you look your best even when you’re feeling weak, insecure, and vulnerable. You need to be with that one person who is going to make you feel special even though you know that you’re just another average human being.
You deserve to be with someone who you know you can always rely on to be there for you no matter how rough or tough it may get. You deserve to be with someone who knows that it’s always important to stay by your side even when it’s inconvenient; someone who is never going to make you feel judged or criticized.
You deserve to be with someone who is always going to support you in all of your endeavors; someone who is always going to make you feel like all of your goals and dreams are valid. You deserve to be with someone who is going to make you feel loved. And not just the puppy love kind of love.
You deserve to feel REAL love. The kind that is raw and unadulterated. You deserve to feel unconditional and wholehearted love. You deserve to be with someone who is going to take a chance on you even when you don’t give them any kind of assurance or certainty. You deserve to be with someone who would be willing to just risk it all for you.
And the risk isn’t exactly going to be easy. The thing about the risk that makes it so scary is that you don’t know what’s going to happen. You are gambling. You are betting. You might be going against the odds and that’s always going to be scary. But you always have to know that you have a chance.
You always have a shot. When you love wholeheartedly, you always know that nothing is going to be impossible. And that’s why it’s so important that you find someone who is willing to take that shot with you; someone who is willing to put it all on the line for you.
Because at the end of the day, love is always going to be a gamble. You never know what you’re going to get. You just have to make sure that you place your bets on the best odds possible. And you deserve to be with a man who presents himself as a guy with good odds.
If you happen to find the person who you know you’re meant to be with forever, then you need to fight like hell to not let that person go. You always have to do your part in making sure that you never let them slip from your grasp. You need to always treasure that individual for as long as the two of you are together.
It’s really so hard to find that one person who would always be willing to come to you on short notice regardless of the reason. It’s so hard to find that person who would be okay with listening to you rant and nag about things that don’t really concern him in the first place.
It’s so hard to find that person who would willingly take on all of your worries and your problems as his own even when he doesn’t have to. It’s so hard to find that one person who is going to do his best to make your life as easy and as comfortable as possible just because he wants to put your happiness above his own.
It’s never easy to find that one person who would give up everything for you even when you don’t ask him to.
It’s normal for challenges to hit your relationship every once in a while. You just have to make sure that you are with someone who you know you would feel confident about facing these challenges with. You always need to fight for this man. If you’ve found this person, consider yourself very lucky. And don’t take it for granted.