We’ve shared and heard about a lot of bad dates, but this recent one is truly a nightmare for the girl involved.
Chloe is an influencer who recently had a date with a guy. Things seemed normal at first, but then he showed some very toxic traits when he went through the medicines in her bathroom.
He looked at all of her medications, which is a highly inappropriate and invasive thing to do. And then he went on to Google her medicines to see why she’s taking them – talk about showing all of the red flags on the first date. Instead of respecting her privacy, he decided to make it worse by planning a birkin bag purchase for an apology, thinking it might smooth things over. Little did he know that such gestures wouldn’t erase the violation of trust he had already committed. It was clear he had a lot to learn about relationships and boundaries.
The next day, not knowing about the guy’s Googling escapades the previous night, Chloe messaged him to ask about his day.
She said:
“Hey, how’s your evening.”
The guy’s reply is every woman’s nightmare:
“Hey not to be rude and this is super awkard of me… the other night was fun but I googled those tablets you lft on your bathroom sink (super invasive of me I know) and it said they were anti psychotics… you’re not mentally ill are you? Just a turn off and I wouldn’t wanna go further if so”
Wow… like, what does someone even say to someone who’s so full of himself and has so many preconceived notions?
Chloe shared a video of the text exchange on TikTok, hiding his name, and her followers showed massive support – as do we, we think she’s MUCH better off without someone so toxic.
Your mom wrote:
“Literally say ‘yes now run'”
Alexa said:
“LOL the universe was doing you a favor on this one bestie”
Jess Spenc spoke facts:
“what gets me is he calls it a ‘turn off’ but him invading your privacy ISN’T a turn off as well??”
Chloe, if you ever read this, we wish you find someone who’s the complete opposite of this guy – he was obnoxious and toxic. You keep doing you, queen!
You can follow Chloe on TikTok here.
What are your thoughts on Chloe’s nightmare date? Do you have your own nightmare date story to share? Share your thoughts in the comments below.
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Images & Featured Image via Chloe on TikTok
The guy is a douche. I mean who does that! You missed a bullet. Invading someone’s privacy that way is very off and he has the issues. Not you. I know there is still a stigma attached to those with mental health disorders. I am Bi-Polar. I understand. It is very painful, but it is also a way to see what people are made of. I don’t want that kind of person in my life. I wouldn’t want someone like that in your life either. ((((((Hugs)))))
It’s people like him that will always stigmatize mental health. Let’s hope he never procreates because his perfect children may never measure up to his expectations and another woman will be left to raise her children alone. He is immature at best and to say the least, he has boundary issues. My advice RUN, as far away as possible!