She Loves Hard Because She Knows How It Feels To Be Loved So Little
She always makes it a point to text you and ask you how you’re doing whenever you’re not together because she cares about you.
A lot of people are going to accuse her of being too aggressive. A lot of people are going to call her out for being so forward. A lot of people are going to tell her that she just loves too much. In fact, you might even be the one telling her these things. You might be telling her that her love is suffocating you. You might be telling her that she cares too much about you and the relationship and that she’s pathetic for doing so. You might call her a loser and you will tell her that she needs to ease up a little bit.
But what you don’t know is that there is a reason she loves you the way that she does. There is a reason why she loves so deeply. What you don’t know is that this is the only way she knows how to love because that’s the way she expects to be loved in return. What you don’t know is that she’s willing to give you her everything because she knows what it feels like to receive nothing in a relationship. What you don’t know is that she loves you deeply because she knows how it feels to be loved so little and she never wants you to experience that kind of pain.
She always makes it a point to text you and ask you how you’re doing whenever you’re not together because she cares about you. She does it because she has experienced being completely ignored by someone from her past. She would send him text messages only to end up being seen-zoned. She would have to wait hours and sometimes days for a response that she thought would never come. She never wants to give you that kind of uncertainty and that’s why she goes through the trouble of texting you even though you think it’s such an unnecessary thing to do. You might even make fun of her for it.
She makes it a point to learn how to cook your favorite food. Or maybe she’ll drop by your favorite restaurant to get you the stuff that you like so that you have something to munch on whenever you get home from work. She does all of these things for you because she knows what it feels like to come home to a house with an empty table. She knows what it feels like to cook for herself even though she was exhausted from working all day. She knows what it feels like to be forced to eat unhealthy food that she hates because no one cared enough to actually prepare her something that she would like. So even though you might criticize her cooking a lot of times, you should know that everything she does for you is always out of love. She just wants to make sure that you always feel like you are cared for.
She loves you so deeply and she always makes it a point to be emotionally and physically available for you whenever you are feeling weak or vulnerable. She is willing to listen to all of your rants about the world. She is willing to take all of the criticisms that you have for her. She is willing to accept anything that you hurl out of your mouth, no matter how hurtful because she knows how it feels like to say something that falls on deaf ears. She knows what it feels like to be in a relationship where she doesn’t have a voice. She knows how it feels to be with someone who makes her think that her opinions don’t matter and that her thoughts have no worth. She knows what it feels like to be shackled into silence and she never wants you to feel the same. She will always want to make sure that you feel like you are being listened to. She is always willing to pay attention to you because she values your ideas and your opinions.
At the end of the day, you probably don’t deserve the love that she’s giving you, but she’s going to give it anyway. She is going to love you in all the ways that she wants to be loved in ways that she has always dreamed of being loved. She is a completely selfless and kindhearted human being. She knows what it means to have nothing and so she is always willing to give her everything. She never wants you to feel like there is a shortage of love in the relationship and so you have to be able to forgive her for overcompensating a lot of the time. There’s a reason that she loves you so deeply. And the least you could do is love her is give her the same kind of love in return.