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This Is The Pain That Comes With Loving Someone Who You Can’t Be With

Love is actually a very powerful emotion. But that power doesn’t mean that it’s always going to be a force for good. Sometimes, love can be powerful in a bad sense. Love has the power to lift you up to the heavens with happiness, joy, meaning, and fulfillment. But love can also bring a lot of pain, anxiety, darkness, and confusion. And a lot of times, love can be a healthy mix of both.

It’s funny how a vast majority of people in this life are always going to pursue love. However, a lot of us don’t really understand what love truly is. A lot of us don’t have love all figured out. In fact, maybe none of us do. Love is so incredibly confusing.

It’s so jarring. Love can be one thing to one person and it can be another thing to another person. That’s why we all have so much trouble with rationalizing love. It’s irrational. A lot of times, love is going to be without rhyme or reason. Yes, love can empower us to live our absolute best lives.

However, it can also lead to some of the most toxic and ugliest emotions known to man. And a lot of us make the mistake of falling in love way too frequently and recklessly. We sometimes find ourselves in the position of wanting more than anything we could ever get.

We find ourselves falling in love with something that can never be ours – and that’s a sad kind of love. That’s the kind of love that brings a lot of heartaches.

It’s not really all too rare for people to be looking for love and end up finding despair instead. And despair is often what people feel when they love something that they can’t have. A lot of people go through the process of falling in love with someone who they know would never love them in the same way.

They can dream, fantasize, and hope all they want but at the end of the day, reality just isn’t going to cooperate with their wishes. They wonder and fantasize about what it would be like to be wrapped up in the sweet embrace of the person they love.

They just continue to hopelessly long for the kind of love that they know is never going to manifest itself in reality. They hope for a love that they know is just way beyond their reach. And yet, they still hold their hands out regardless. They know that their fantasies are dramatically detached from reality but they don’t care.

At least they are able to find a sense of comfort in that fantasy even when they know that it can never be real. But then, there will be times wherein reality will force them to confront the realness of their situation. They will be forced to really come to terms with the fact that they are never going to get what they want.

And whenever that happens, it’s a different kind of despair. It’s a different kind of disappointment. It’s a whole other level of suffering. It’s a whole other level of struggle.

There are those who say that it is much better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. At least you are left with the consolation of giving your love a try. At least you are given an opportunity to relish in your fantasies and your daydreams.

At least you get a chance to experience your personal perceptions of how beautiful a love with that individual could be. However fleeting, however fantastical, however unreal it all might be – at least it’s there for you to experience for yourself.

Love, even when it isn’t right for you, is always going to be a beautiful thing that is worth celebrating. Love is something that is always going to be worth cherishing. Even when love happens to bring you a lot of pain and disappointment in your life, you can find solace in the fact that you have had the opportunity to experience the magic and mysticism of love itself.

Love is a powerful force that always demands to be felt and acknowledged. And even though it might not always show the face that you want from it, you’re going to have to accept that it’s awful. It’s absolutely horrible whenever you are in love with a person who can’t love you in return.

It might be one of the most horrible experiences that a person could go through in this life. However, you just have to have faith that love is going to come for you eventually. You just have to believe that eventually, love is going to come around for you. And when it does, it will be the best thing you will have ever known in this life.

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Relationship Rules is my ideology of love. It's a concept of emotion and oneness. Check out my book - "50 Rules of a Relationship" here.

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