5 Moments When a Man Realizes He Lost a Good Woman

Your man might not have realized how fortunate he was to have you as a wonderful partner. Despite that, he went searching for someone else. As time passed, he likely started to understand that he lost the best partner he could ever have. It may not happen immediately, but he will likely go through moments when he realizes he let go of a great woman in his life.

1. He sees you dating other people

If he starts dating other girls right after your breakup, it doesn’t necessarily mean he’s over you. In many cases, he’ll only realize what he lost – a great woman like you – when you start dating someone new. He knows your worth and how men would do a lot to be with you, as he did himself not long ago. So, as time goes by, he might feel lucky he had you, especially when he sees a new guy in your life, and he could even become jealous.

2. He keeps on dating a slew of women

If your ex is dating several people at once, it’s not because he’s a hot commodity. He might be doing this to find someone as good as you, but so far, no one measures up. After all these dates, he might come back to you, realizing he lost a great woman, even if he was too stubborn to admit it earlier.

3. He should be having the time of his life, but…

He’s having a blast, showing off on social media with a pretty lady and friends at a cool party in another country – something he might have wanted before. But instead of being happy, he tells you he’s sad and misses you (maybe not directly, but his friends might say so). He might even say he’d be happier with you, even though he’s with a beautiful woman. He knows he didn’t need a fancy party to feel that kind of happiness with you. In simple terms, if he really wants to be with you despite all the fun, he understands he lost someone special.

4. When all the ‘fun’ is over

He had a strong physical connection with his new girlfriend, but as time went on, he saw they didn’t connect well mentally, emotionally, or spiritually. They argued a lot. He started to realize that having a partner with similar interests is better. Slowly, he understood how special your connection was. You both fit together perfectly, enjoying the same things and supporting each other’s passions. Now that he let you go, he sees that his new relationship has more problems and arguments.

5. He’s actively trying to get you back

Men may not always realize what they have until it’s gone, but if your guy truly gets it, he’ll act to win you back. If work caused the breakup, he’ll try to spend more time with you. If his bad habits were the issue, he’d work on quitting or getting help. In simple terms, he won’t just make empty promises; he’ll do whatever it takes to have you back because he knows you’re one of a kind.

Share Your Thoughts:

Have you experienced any of these moments, or do you have your own insights to share about realizing the value of a good woman? We’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments below.

5 comments
  1. Life sucks
    Then it’s good again
    Then it’s great
    Then life happens
    Then it sucks again,
    Sometimes, we lose pieces
    Not always meant to be picked up
    The pieces are not mendable
    We just try our best to fill those holes
    With whatever we can
    Because today is today
    And tomorrow is tomorrow
    There’s always another day
    So live today
    To love tomorrow
    And remember who
    The F you are

    1. Love this!! Totally agree. Life is too short on dreading over the BS. Don’t chance someone that doesn’t value you. Stay focus on yourself and happiness.

  2. Always said my ex did me a huge favour ending our marriage. I deserved better and soon found it. Married now to someone who appreciates me and tells me all the time how lucky he is and thankful to my ex for letting me go.

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