It can be a very bad feeling when you know that the person you love isn’t exactly giving you the safety and the security that you need in your love life. You never want to be stuck in a relationship with someone who doesn’t really make you feel safe in your own relationship. You don’t want to be kept in the dark when it comes to how your partner feels about you.
Of course, in any relationship, there will be times wherein a partner will just be feeling a little irritable. There will be moments wherein someone will just be in a bad mood, and you’re just going to have to bear with it until they become okay again. However, it can be troubling when these bad moods and signs of irritability are happening way too often. It could potentially mean that your partner is actually thinking about ending the relationship that you’re in.
However, the good news is that most couples usually think about breaking up at least once throughout the course of their relationships. However, it’s not really an issue unless they act on it. But that doesn’t mean that you get an out. That doesn’t mean that you can allow yourself to get complacent. If the signs are there, then you need to do everything to make sure that you fix the issues in your relationship. If you let these things fester, then your partner is eventually going to break up with you; and you’re going to be left feeling helpless in your relationship as a result.
It can be troubling to know that your relationship isn’t exactly going as planned. However, it’s only a problem when there is no solution. And fortunately for you, there are a few things that you can do to actually remedy the situation that you’re in. The key is just in being able to figure out if there’s something wrong that needs fixing. You need to be able to see the signs in order for you to understand the temperature of your relationship. And how do you do that? Well, make yourself aware of what the signs are. And stay vigilant in your relationship at all times. When you find that a lot of the signs here actually apply to your relationship, then you need to make a change. Your partner is thinking of breaking up with you, and you need to be able to change their mind.
A lot of these signs are going to be very subtle. You might not necessarily know that these signs are there unless you actively seek them out. So, that is exactly why you need to make yourself aware of the signs so that you are able to spot them whenever they surface. No matter how subtle they might be, you will be able to find them if you are just sharp enough.
1. They avoid spending time with you.
They don’t really like to spend time with you as they used to. They start to prioritize other things in life. They start to spend more time with other people and other activities. That means that they don’t really like to be prioritizing you at this point. They don’t consider you to be important to them anymore.
2. They don’t really talk to you about the future anymore.
They don’t really make you feel like your relationship has a future at this point. In their own minds, the end is near, and that’s why they’re not really talking to you about future plans or arrangements anymore. They know that your relationship’s future is in great jeopardy.
They no longer make you feel safe about expressing yourself. They don’t give you a safe space of expression. They don’t make you feel welcome to say what is in your heart because they don’t express an interest to hear you out.
4. They get frustrated by even the simplest things.
They are very irritable with you in your relationship. They are always getting angry with you over the simplest things. They get really frustrated whenever they are with you because they might have a lot of hatred and contempt in their hearts for you. That means that the love is slowly leaving them.
5. They don’t try to finish arguments with you.
They no longer show an interest to stay invested in the relationship. They walk away from arguments instead of trying to fix the issues between the two of you.
6. They don’t feel as close to you as before.
They don’t really seem so close to you anymore. They are always seemed distant and closed off to you. They don’t really try to connect with you anymore. And so even though the two of you might be lying next to each other, it can feel like you’re a thousand miles apart.