Think of how easy love would be if we could all just choose who were destined to fall in love with. In this way, we would always just ever really fall in love with the people we’re absolutely compatible with; the people who would never just turn around and break our hearts when we least expect it. We could just stop ourselves from falling in love with the people who are downright wrong for us.
We can prevent a whole lot of pain and destruction from ever befalling our lives. If only we all had more control over our capacity to fall in love. We can put an end to the development of our feelings at the first signs of turmoil and we can quickly move on to someone else. But unfortunately for us, the real world just doesn’t work in that manner. We really can’t pick who we end up falling in love with, and that can really suck for a lot of us.
Regardless of how invested, you might become in a person or in a relationship that you’re in, there is always going to be a chance that things just aren’t going to work out for the two of you. And a lot of times, it’s going to be beyond your control too.
You are going to be helpless to the circumstances that surround your relationship a lot of the time – and that’s why a lot of relationships end even without it necessarily being anyone’s fault. Perhaps it’s an incompatibility issue that neither of you could prevent because of the way that your personalities are structured.
And that’s why it’s important for us to bring up the Zodiac signs when determining the compatibility of two people in a relationship.
The universe has already laid out the prototypes for us a far as our personalities are concerned. We just have to make sure to pay attention to the details so that we don’t end up making any substantial relationship mistakes that we’re going to end up regretting.
There are some Zodiac sign pairings that are just plain unadvisable. Now that isn’t to say that these Zodiac signs should never get together; it’s just that if they ever do, they have to understand that the odds are stacked against them. And they’re going to have to work extra hard to make things work.
1. Scorpio and Cancer
You are both inherently introverted as a couple and that’s why you’re probably never going to work out. But there’s another layer to it too. A Cancer tends to be very withdrawn and sensitive while a Scorpio is ruthless and careless. With that kind of pairing between two needy individuals, it can be hard to cultivate a healthy relationship environment. If you’re planning on dating a Scorpio then you should know the 15 Brutally Honest things about Scorpios.
2. Virgo and Gemini
You two are the exception to the “opposites attract” rule because you’re just never going to work. You are far too different and you’re not going to be able to find much common ground. A Virgo is very rigid and inflexible. They always want things to be done a certain way. And then a Gemini is the complete opposite. They are adaptable to whatever circumstance and they are fond of change. They are just going to frustrate the hell out of each other. Here are 13 things that you should know about loving a Virgo.
3. Sagittarius and Libra
You’re just going to be fighting way too much in your relationship; you won’t be able to focus on finding ways to let your love for each other grow. While it’s normal to have a few fights in healthy relationships, this pairing would just overdo it. A Libra will want to seek a sense of security and stability from a Sagittarius, but the Sagittarius will never be willing or able to give that to them. Also read, 10 Ways to Love a Sagittarius.