7 Traits Of A Terrible Boyfriend Who You Need To Steer Clear Of

Steer clear.

It takes two mature people to make a real romantic relationship work. It can’t be one sided. No one person can carry an entire relationship. It always takes the effort of two people. If one person fails to pick up the slack, then the entire relationship is going to crumble. That is an absolute certainty. That’s why it’s important for you to only date quality men who actually have the maturity and the temperance that it takes to make a relationship work. You need to find yourself a man who isn’t going to jeopardize your chances of actually going all the way. 

You have to understand that even if your intentions are real and noble; even if you have all the love and the willingness to actually make the relationship work, things aren’t going to turn out in your favor if you’re going to date a man who isn’t going to reciprocate your efforts. So always make sure that you find yourself a man who is willing to put just as much into the relationship as you. Your strength and drive alone will not be able to sustain a romance and you have to accept that fact.

So how do you know if the guy you’re dating just doesn’t have what it takes to be in a relationship with you? Well, there are some signs that you need to look out for. If a lot of these signs are going to be evident in the men that you date, then you better make sure that your man is willing to change. If he isn’t, then you should do yourself a favor and walk out of the relationship. It’s for your own good. So these are the top signs that your boyfriend is terrible and you need to steer clear of him as much as possible.

1. They don’t take an interest in the things that are most important to you. 

If a man were truly in love with you, he would always make it a point to be interested in the things that you are most passionate about. He would take an interest because he knows that your passions are part of what makes you who you are. He should always practice a slight obsession with your life by trying to be inquisitive. He should make you feel like he is genuinely curious about your life. 

2. They are inconsistent with their kindness towards you.

He is infinitely sweet and romantic to you one day, but then he acts like a total douche-bag on the next day. He’s very inconsistent. It even seems like he’s only ever really nice to you whenever he wants something. But whenever he doesn’t need anything from you, he’s going to completely ignore you. He might even go as far to act like you don’t exist. 

3. You get the sense that they are unwilling to commit to you.

Commitment is a huge part of making a relationship work. There is no chance of your relationship surviving if one of you refuses to commit to the other. So if you suspect that your man still has a wandering eye and isn’t completely locking himself down on you, then that’s a definite cause for worry. He should only really have eyes for you at this point. You have to force him to commit or you should just walk away. 

4. They only want you for sex.

If he only wants you for your body, then it isn’t really love and you should get out of that relationship. He’s only treating you like a mere object of pleasure. He doesn’t really care about your feelings or emotions. He is only ever interested in what kind of physical pleasure he can get out of being with you. 

5. They are always acting selfish. 

He doesn’t really ask you about how you’re doing or how you’re feeling. He doesn’t really like to do any favors for you. He is too busy thinking about himself. He doesn’t really have space in his mind or heart for you and that’s a blatant indication that this relationship isn’t going to be good for you. 

6. They don’t open up to you on an emotional level.

It’s one thing for your man to be shy and insecure, and that’s why he would refuse to open up to you. If that’s the case, you have to practice maximum patience. But it’s another thing entirely if he just refuses to open up to you purely because he thinks that you’re not worth the time. That’s not the kind of behavior you should be tolerating. 

7. Your friends tell you that he’s bad for you. 

Sometimes, all you really need is an outsider’s perspective. Maybe your love is blinding you from what’s really taking place. Always try to give your friends’ opinions some consideration because they are only looking out for your well-being.

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