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10 Signs He Is A Player And Your Feelings Don’t Matter To Him

Isla Emmet Isla Emmet | December 1, 2014 | 3 min read

Is he a player? This article is for all the ladies who think the man they’re in love with isn’t as loyal as he seems. He is probably a player guy. If you have doubts then you must not forget to read these 10 signs he is a player to the whole world, and he makes sure all of his friends and family know about you and meet you regularly. It is essential to him that they all like you and make you a part of them. But if the guy you’re seeing avoids introducing you to his friends and family, doesn’t like being seen with you and only takes you out where he knows no one will remember him, there’s something shady going on, he doesn’t care about you and is playing you for a fool!

6. He Has Tons Of Female Friends

Don’t get me wrong; there’s nothing wrong with guys having female friends as much as there’s nothing wrong with girls having male friends. But if they have an unhealthy amount of female friends, so much so that they are always on the phone with one or the other. Even when you’re hanging out with them he’s talking about some Other friend of his and doesn’t pay attention to what you have to say, it is a clear sign of you being played, and you need to move on!

7. He Always Complains

Guys who love you tend to not care about how you look and how you smell. They love you for who you are And not the amount of makeup you can wear for them. But if the guy you’re seeing complains a lot, even when you’re looking your best, he says you could look better, every effort you make seems to go to waste And your feelings end up getting hurt in the end, you’re probably with a player guy!

8. He Hides His Phone From You

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Phones and social media accounts aren’t important when it comes to loving someone. My phone is usually always In the hands of my girlfriend because she likes playing games on it and because I have nothing to hide. If the guy you’re seeing is very weird about his phone, he texts people when you’re not looking. He Goes away to answer some essential phone calls; he never shows you his phone no matter how much you ask him and then blames you for accusing him of being a cheater, he probably is a cheater!

9. His Past Is A Mystery

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Make sure you know everything about a guy before you start dating him. You might be with someone who tells you a different story about his past every time the topic comes up. When you ask him about how many girls he has been with, the number is always different.

10. It’s All About Being Physical

It's All About Being Physical

If you’re with a guy who would rather be in bed with you than talk to you. You’re not with the right guy, and he’s playing on you. Physical intimacy is essential in every relationship, but it shouldn’t DEFINE the relationship. Whenever you try to talk to him, he throws a fit and wants to be physical. That is a sure sign that he is a player.

 


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Dhivya · January 26, 2020

Yeah I agree with it???? but why these people come and tell us there are in love with us and act like this

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Isla Emmet
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Isla is a relationship writer and former counsellor based in London. With a background in psychotherapy and five years of writing about love, attachment, and emotional wellbeing, she brings a calm and deeply empathetic voice to every piece. Isla believes that understanding yourself is the first step to understanding the people you love. When she is not writing, she is hiking the Scottish Highlands or curled up with a good novel and a strong cup of tea.