She might not be the easiest person to love but she’s definitely going to make it worth your while. She is a smart and independent woman. She is so incredibly strong and she knows how to stand her ground. She is unapologetically genuine and sincere. You would never have to doubt that she’s being her true self with you. But she’s also been bent and broken so many times in the past. She is someone who has been through a lot in life. She has experienced the painful and bitter taste of a love gone wrong. She has had her heart shattered so many times by so many different people.
But she always finds a way to reassemble herself. She always finds a way to stand right back up. She finds a way to fix the parts of her that have been damaged. In her brokenness, she is able to find a lot of strength, courage, and persistence. She is constantly coming back stronger than she has ever been. She is always a lot harder, tougher, and more resilient after her setbacks. Through her struggles, she has been given an opportunity to see what she’s really like when everything else has been stripped away. She knows who she really is once she hits rock bottom. And most importantly, she knows exactly what it takes to get right back up again.
This is the kind of woman who understands that she is a person of worth and that she shouldn’t really be settling for just anyone. She knows how she deserves to be treated. She knows that she isn’t going to be tolerant of terrible treatment from terrible men. She has very clear principles and boundaries – and she always makes it a point to stay firm on them. She lives by her own personal tenets and she doesn’t let anyone else dictate how she lives her life. She is always going to be intolerant of a person’s disrespect.
She is a very complex human being and you’re asking for a lot if you really want to get with her. And even though she’s going to require a lot from you, she’s also most definitely going to be worth it. Loving a woman like her is going to be far from simple. But she’s definitely going to make it worthwhile. Loving her and being loved by her is going to be the greatest and most fulfilling experience you could ever have in this life.
This kind of woman knows what kind of man she deserves to be with and she certainly knows how she deserves to be treated. She has clear, firm boundaries and she doesn’t let anyone disrespect them. She lives her life in accordance with her own beliefs and principles and she doesn’t allow anyone to make her behave otherwise. And once you realize just how amazing and beautiful this girl truly is, you’re going to come to learn that loving her isn’t going to be so difficult at all. You’re going to come to learn that she is the single most beautiful entity that has entered your life and you’re going to want to do your best for her.
Of course, there will be some moments wherein you will think that she’s just really cold and distant. You might think that she doesn’t have a heart and that she’s impersonal. But that’s not the case. It’s just that she likes to keep her heart guarded. She has been hurt by so many terrible and deceitful men in the past. And she’s trying her best to protect herself from getting hurt ever again. She just has difficulty in letting people in because she is traumatized by the scars from her past. She only feels safest whenever she gets to call the shots. But letting someone in would somehow mean relinquishing her control somewhat.
It’s going to take a real man to show her that there is beauty in vulnerability. It’s going to take a real man to make her realize just how amazing true love is and how vulnerability plays a part in all of that. It’s going to take a real man to make her feel safe and secure in love and in romance. And if you’re up for the challenge, then you need to do your best. You need to try your hardest to let her know that you’re the man for the job. You need to convince her that you’re the guy who she needs to be taking a chance on.
And once you have her in your arms, you will know that none of your efforts is wasted. Once you know that you’ve secured her love, you will realize that it was all worth it; that she was always worth it.