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Should I Break Up Because I am Depressed?

Isla Emmet Isla Emmet | November 17, 2019 | 2 min read

Should I break up because I am depressed? Mental illness is an “illness”, it is not who you are. It is not a part of your soul, it is a part of your mind and it will heal over time. When you’re in a relationship, you’re with your partner through the good and the bad, in sickness and in health. When one of you is going through a dark time, the other isn’t going to give up on you and leave you alone to suffer through it. You’re supposed to be each other's strength, you’re supposed to be there for each other and not run away at the first sight of danger. Life is not a walk in the park, mental illness or not. Recognizing signs of seasonal depression symptoms is crucial for understanding how it can affect you and your relationship. Open communication about these feelings can strengthen your bond, allowing both partners to navigate the challenges together. Remember, seeking help is a sign of strength and can lead to a healthier, more supportive partnership.

Mental illness and relationships:

You should not let your depression come between your relationship. I suffer from Generalized Anxiety Disorder, and it affected my relationship really badly. But now, I’ve come to terms with it. And my wife is very supportive, I have healed because of her. So if you’re suffering from a mental illness, treat it the same as any other illness. You need your partner’s help, you can not be alone in this fight. I couldn’t win this battle alone, we all need help sometimes. You need to tell them how you feel and how important they are for you. Fight this battle together, and get through it!

Don’t give in to the idea of a breakup, because your boyfriend loves you and supports you. He knows what haunts you and he knows how it is in your mind. He will always be there for you and stand by you. He needs nothing more but your trust and faith in the fact that he’s here for you. He’s not scared of your mental illness, he’s only scared of losing you. So be strong and keep hope alive.


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마닐라 여행 · June 11, 2025

Deciding whether to end a relationship while dealing with depression is a deeply personal and complex choice.

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Isla Emmet
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Isla is a relationship writer and former counsellor based in London. With a background in psychotherapy and five years of writing about love, attachment, and emotional wellbeing, she brings a calm and deeply empathetic voice to every piece. Isla believes that understanding yourself is the first step to understanding the people you love. When she is not writing, she is hiking the Scottish Highlands or curled up with a good novel and a strong cup of tea.