1. You need a partner who is going to be patient and understanding with you.
As a Scorpio, it’s no secret that you’re going to be a struggle to deal with. You have your moments when you know that you’re being completely unreasonable. You are going to want your partner to be a certain way but you aren’t going to hold yourself to those same standards. You like to remain mysterious and closed off. But you want all access to your partner’s life. You want them to open up to you completely even though you wouldn’t be willing to do the same for them. There are many flawed aspects to your personality, and you need to be with someone who is going to stay with you in spite of your flaws.
2. You need a partner who is going to defer to you a lot.
You are a dominant personality. You are a strong character. You always like to be in full control of the situation. You hate it whenever you leave the decision-making to other people. And that’s why you’re going to need to be with a partner who is going to defer to you a lot. You need to be with someone who lets you steer the ship of your relationship.
3. You need a partner who is going to stay loyal to you.
You are going to be such a pain in the butt in a relationship. You aren’t going to be the easiest person to fall in love with. You are going to make your fair share of mistakes. And that’s why you need someone who is always going to stay loyal to you no matter what. IT takes a lot for you to open up about how you feel. And once you do, you always need that person to stay loyal to you. You need a partner who is always going to give you a sense of security; someone who you never have to worry about betraying you.
4. You need a partner who is strong and rugged.
You are often tactless with your words. You are often very hurtful with your demeanor even when you don’t mean to be. This can be troublesome because you would never be able to make things work with someone who is overly sensitive. You need to be with someone who can take the punishment that you dish out.
5. You need a partner who is incredibly empathetic.
You don’t like to open up much. That is something that you are notoriously known for as a Scorpio. You are a human enigma. You are always a puzzle. You aren’t the easiest person to read. And you always do your best to make sure that you maintain that stoicism; you try to close yourself off because you’re afraid of getting hurt. But that doesn’t mean that you don’t want to be understood. You want to be with a person who is able to see right through you; someone who understands you better than you understand yourself. You need someone who really knows what you’re going through on an emotional level; even when you don’t open up about it.
6. You need a partner who is able to dream big.
You are very ambitious as a Scorpio. You aren’t the type of person who is going to make your relationship the center of your universe. You have plenty of dreams for yourself; and you need to be with a partner who is the same way. You can’t bring yourself to respect anyone who doesn’t dream big. You can’t bring yourself to respect anyone who settles for a life of mediocrity. You always want a life full of success and achievement. You would never want to be with a partner who is okay with living a life that is merely “good enough” because that’s not how you see life at all.
7. You need a partner who has great attention to detail.
You aren’t very expressive in the verbal sense; but you usually like to communicate with your body language. That’s why you need a partner who is perceptive; someone who is able to read what you’re trying to say by paying great attention to the details.
8. You need a partner who is capable of being independent.
You are a pretty independent soul yourself. You usually like to keep to yourself. You are perfectly capable of getting things done on your own. And you really want a partner who is the same way. You want to be with someone who doesn’t have to depend on you to get things done. You don’t want a partner who is constantly clinging to you; someone who is always glued to your hip. You value your solitude and your isolation. You don’t want to be with someone who wants to spend every single second of your waking lives together. You still want to be able to maintain your individuality in your relationship.