5. The story of how you met.
The two of you have only just started going out with one another. So, it would be best for you to just focus on the details of your relationship for the moment. You don’t want to be talking about how you and your ex met considering that you and your new partner have only just met too.
6. The best qualities of his personality.
Here’s a little tip for you if you still don’t get it by now: your new partner doesn’t want to hear about your ex in any capacity. And he DEFINITELY doesn’t want to be hearing about how great he was at certain aspects. So make sure to NEVER talk about the best qualities that your ex used to have.
7. The fact that your friends really liked him.
You might think that this is a very casual and innocent thing to say to your current partner. But the truth is that this is how he’s going to take it: he will take it to mean that you’re actually threatening him to make sure that her friends like you as well.
8. The extent of the heartbreak he caused you.
Just avoid going into the details for now. Maybe you can broach this topic later on when you get really deep into your relationship. But for the moment, just keep things vague and ambiguous. Just say that you had a bad breakup and that you’re not comfortable talking about it just yet. He’s going to understand. When discussing sensitive subjects, be mindful of the impact your words can have. It’s essential to navigate this carefully, especially when considering detrimental phrases to avoid saying. Instead, focus on positive aspects of your past experiences and how they’ve shaped you, ensuring the conversation remains constructive and forward-looking.
