9. The gifts that he bought for you.
Again, this is going to rub him the wrong way. This is going to make him feel like you’re pressuring him into buying the same kinds of things for you. And that’s not the kind of pressure that you would never want to be putting on your partner at all. It’s important to understand what he values in your relationship, as this can guide how you express your desires. By focusing on mutual interests and shared experiences, you can strengthen your bond without making him feel obligated. Communication is key, and being open about your needs will help foster a healthier dynamic between you both.
No comparisons. Again. No comparisons. It’s really important that you understand this.
11. That you still love him… or hate him.
And of course, you never want to be telling him about any lingering feelings that you might still have for your ex. Regardless if these feelings are positive or negative, you always have to make sure that you exude indifference towards your former flame.
