Have you found your soulmate?
Even the best kinds of relationships are going to be extremely complicated and challenging to deal with. No matter how easy and simple some couples make it seem, there is a complexity there that is consistent in all relationships. And that’s only because human beings themselves are inherently complex. That’s the whole point of it. We are all very different and unique individuals who are looking to strike some sort of balance and harmony with each other. That can’t be an easy task at all. And we have to come to terms with the fact that sometimes, things just don’t work out the way that we want them to.
A lot of us go into relationships with the best of hopes and the purest of intentions. We see the destructive tendencies of bad relationships, but we accept the risks anyway. We know that love can be a messy ordeal, but we don’t let it faze us; we don’t allow it to deviate us from the path to the euphoric love that we all think we deserve. But sometimes, there will just be no way to suppress all the insecurities.
Sure, a lot of great couples will be insecure about their relationships to some degree. But the best kinds of couples will always have a love that can overpower all the insecurities. When you really meet and fall in love with that one person you’re just destined to be with, all of the questions and insecurities are just white noise. People who are really with the people that they love the most in the world understand that it still takes a lot of effort to make a relationship work, but they never doubt their abilities to overcome the challenges. That’s why if you happen to be asking these questions about your relationship with your soulmate, then maybe you have to consider the fact that you’re just not really as strong a couple as you think you are.
1. Does he still lie to me?
A good relationship is always supposed to be built on pure honesty. The best kinds of couples never conceal the truth within a relationship. They are always free to openly discuss anything no matter how difficult bearing the truth can be. If you still think that your partner is being dishonest with you, then that tells you all you need to know about how open you really are with one another.
2. Do we have what it takes to make things work?
A lot of strong couples aren’t oblivious to the challenges that come with making a complicated relationship work. They know that they are going to have to be adaptable. They know that they are going to have to make some compromises here and there. They understand that things aren’t always going to like a smooth sail. But one thing they never do is doubt their abilities to withstand whatever challenges come their way.
3. What direction is this relationship taking?
As a long-term couple, you both should have already discussed your expectations in the relationship. If you’re still unsure about where your relationship is headed, then you need to sit down and have a serious talk. Now when you find yourselves incapable of coming up with a vision or plan for your relationship moving forward, then maybe you really aren’t meant to be together. – Continue reading on the next page
4. Is our love really worth all the compromise and sacrifice?
The answer should always be yes when you’re in a true relationship with your soulmate. You shouldn’t even feel the need to be asking this question. If you were really in love with the person that you’re destined to be with forever, you wouldn’t mind making a few compromises and sacrifices of your own. You would never hesitate to place the needs of the relationship above your own.
5. What makes this relationship different from my previous ones?
If you don’t see any differences in how this relationship is playing out from your previous ones, then you’re in serious trouble here. There should be some blatant signs that this relationship is one that has the potential to last. A solid relationship with your soulmate should be able to set itself apart from the other failed relationships that you’ve had in the past.
6. Why does this relationship still leave me feeling hurt a lot of the time?
Relationships don’t always have to be composed of pure bliss and joy all the time. There is still room for some pain and hurt sometimes, but it should never be a lingering presence in the relationship. If you were truly in a relationship with your soulmate, the light should always be able to drown out the dark. The hurt and the pain should always be overshadowed by the pure happiness and comfort of a genuine love affair.
7. Are we really in love with each other?
If you really have to ask yourself this question, then you’re really not in love with each other. It’s as simple as that.
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