An independent woman is a rare find in this world. An alpha woman is a beautiful class of lady that should be protected at all costs. If you know that you have a shot at falling in love with an alpha woman, then you need to make sure that you’re going to be prepared for it. She’s not going to make it easy for you. She’s not going to make it simple. She’s going to make it oh so difficult; but you should know that she is definitely going to be worth it.
But she isn’t going to settle for just any guy. You need to be prepared. You need to do your research. You need to make sure that you are presenting yourself as a worthy candidate of her love. You need to make sure that you are going to have all bases covered. You need to make sure that you really know what you’re getting into. Because otherwise, she isn’t going to pay you any mind. Here are a few lessons you’re going to need to learn if you’re going to fall in love with an independent woman:
1. She is perfectly fine with being alone.
She isn’t going to need to spend all of her days with you. She isn’t going to need you to be around her for all hours of the day. In fact, she’s going to ask you for space and freedom a lot even when you’re in a relationship; and you’re going to have to respect that. It’s not that she wouldn’t love you; it’s just that she’s so used to getting things done on her own. She is her own person and she doesn’t have to rely on anyone else to get through life.
2. She doesn’t need you to get things done on her own.
She knows how to get things done on her own. She isn’t always going to turn to you for help. She isn’t always going to make you feel needed. And your ego should be able to handle that if you really want to get with her.
3. She hates it whenever people consider her to be an intimidating person.
She doesn’t want people to be intimidated by her. She is who she is and she is unapologetic about it. She isn’t going to adjust who she is for the convenience of other people. She isn’t going to tone herself down so as not to offend others. She respects those who aren’t intimidated by who she is; those who make an effort to keep up with her.
4. She isn’t going to settle for being anyone’s mere option.
If you’re going to be experimenting with her, she isn’t going to want anything to do with you. If you’re going to be playing with her, you might as well just kiss her goodbye. If you are going to make her compete with other women, you might as well not expect her to play your little games. She isn’t going to take you seriously unless you take her seriously as well.
5. She isn’t cold; she just knows how to keep her feelings in check.
You don’t have to expect very dramatic and over-the-top emotional reactions from her. This is both a good and a bad thing. If you don’t like drama, then that’s a good thing. She hates drama and she won’t be looking to stir anything up. But you might be seeing her as someone who is cold and emotionless. That’s not the case. She just doesn’t act hysterical whenever her emotions overwhelm her.
6. She is unapologetic about going after what she wants in life.
She isn’t going to be shy to go after what she wants. Not to say that she is going to bring other people down to get ahead. No, she’s not like that. But she won’t apologize for being ambitious and being driven. She isn’t going to be ashamed of being selfish; of wanting to go after the best things that life can offer her.
7. She is never going to take anything at surface value.
She is always looking for depth in everyone that she meets. She isn’t materialistic. She isn’t shallow. She is always looking for depth and meaning. And if you’re all surface-value, then you can’t expect her to have any respect or interest in you.
8. She can be a struggle to fall in love with; but she is definitely going to be worth it.
She isn’t going to be the easiest of people to fall in love with. She isn’t always going to roll over and agree with you. She isn’t going to be the kind of girl you can just boss around and manipulate. She isn’t the kind of girl who is going to let you walk all over her. And it’s precisely for those reasons that she’s going to be worth it. She is amazing and any guy would be lucky to have her.