Men don’t stand for such things.
We all have our standards and our principles as to how we choose to engage in relationships with other people. It’s natural for us to have some sort of checklist for the people we have relationships with. Of course, men will have to be a little flexible when it comes to tolerating some aspects of their lady’s personalities. But there are times when a man just has to put his foot down and say enough is enough. A lot of men can be very tolerant while there are also plenty of men who just don’t have the patience for putting up with things that really irritate them. However, there are just some general rules that you really can’t break when you want to sustain success in a relationship with a man.
There are some universally accepted standards for the male gender when it comes to determining a quality woman. A real man will commit himself to the right woman; and the right woman must always satisfy certain standards that he sets beforehand. What standards are those? Well, there are a bunch of them. A lot of them are quite obvious big-picture aspects of a person’s character. While there are also some that are a little more subtle, but they all make up how a lady carries herself throughout the day. It can be very difficult to stray away from established habits, but you are going to have to make an effort to rid yourself of these deal-breaking habits if you want to keep your man in your life. Read on until the end of this list to see if you are guilty of a few deal-breakers that could potentially send your man packing.
1 .You are unambitious and you’re lazy.
The world is a difficult place to live in. If you are only going to add to your man’s problems without contributing anything to the table, then he’s not going to be too fond of you. Modern men are attracted to women who actually work hard to get what they want. They abhor lazy slobs who treat men like their personal piggy banks.
2. You aren’t capable of being alone.
You have to learn how to be independent. Men also like to have individual lives outside of their relationships. You should want the same. You have to be able to define yourself beyond your relationship. You can’t settle just for being known as so-and-so’s girlfriend. You have to be able to build an identity of your own.
3. You don’t make an effort to make yourself look presentable.
You should always make an effort to pretty yourself up for your man. You should never grow complacent. The moment you stop putting in the effort to make yourself look good, your man will start to think that you no longer think he’s worth the time and effort from you.
4. You don’t have a sense of humor.
A sense of humor is always going to be important in any long term relationship. You always have to be able to let loose and just be silly around one another. You can’t afford to just be serious all the time. You have to be able to breed an environment of happiness and joy in the relationship. Otherwise, if the relationship is devoid of happiness, there will be little to stop him from walking away.
5. You are faced with the challenge of long-distance.
This isn’t necessarily a bad thing for ALL couples, but a lot of men will not be able to take long distance romances. It’s just a fact that distance always has a way of making the relationship more challenging and difficult to sustain.
6. You act like a spoiled little brat.
You act a little too entitled. You think that the world should serve you everything you want on a silver platter. Men hate it when women just expect everyone else to bend at their will. You should always make sure that you are humble enough to recognize that the world doesn’t revolve around you.
7. You still keep flirting with other men.
Commitment is an important thing to a lot of men. You have to be mature enough to actually commit to a man when you’re in a relationship with him. If he finds that you’re just fooling around with him and that you’re still entertaining other people, that’s an instant deal breaker right there.
8. You don’t show him the respect he deserves.
Respect is the basic foundation for any kind of relationship. You can’t expect a man to want to be with you if you don’t give him the respect that he deserves. He is a human being who deserves to be treated the way you would want to be treated as well.
9. You act inconsistent.
Men want consistency especially when it comes to long-term relationships. If you’re hot one minute and then you’re cold on the next, then you aren’t giving him a lot of reassurance. He wants some sense of stability with you and if you won’t be able to give it to him, he is definitely walking away. He just wants some security in the relationship.
Men, do you agree?
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