Don’t stay with the person who deliberately serves as a roadblock to your dreams.
Don’t stay with the person who makes you feel insecure. Don’t stay with the person who never gives you the stability and the security that you need in a relationship. Don’t stay with the person who fails to give you the assuredness that you so desperately need from them. Don’t stay with the person who picks and chooses the moments when they should be loving you. Don’t stay with the person who only chooses to love you whenever it’s convenient for them to do so. Don’t stay with the person who forces you to ask so many questions instead of just giving you all the answers. Don’t stay with the person who claims to want to be with you when it’s absolutely clear that they aren’t entirely sure about what they want out of life and relationships. Don’t stay with the person who is deliberately wasting your time for the prospect of a dim future. Don’t stay with the person who doesn’t treat you the way that you deserve to be treated. Don’t stay with the person who doesn’t know how to make you happy.
Don’t stay with the person who only ever sends you text messages when they need something; because otherwise, their name wouldn’t be popping up on your phone at all. Don’t stay with the person who deliberately makes you wait for hours and maybe even days for a call back or a reply. Don’t stay with a partner who only sees you as something temporary; as someone who is expendable and easily replaceable. Don’t stay with a person who doesn’t really envision a future with you; someone who only lives in the moment without any regard for future plans. Don’t stay with someone who can’t give you the emotional security that you need regarding the future state of your relationship. This is someone you can’t possibly build a future around. This is not a person you can plan a life with. Don’t stay with the person who just doesn’t know how much you’re worth; how valuable you really are as a person.
Don’t stay with the person who is only using you as some sort of tool. Don’t stay with the person who is treating you like some means to and end. Don’t stay with someone who uses you, abuses you, and manipulates you like some object of pleasure. Don’t stay with someone who is constantly seeking your attention but not your affection. Don’t stay with someone whose ego is needy and is purely dependent on your presence. Don’t stay with someone who will never ever make you feel like you’re going to be a genuine person of interest or importance. Don’t stay with someone who will never love you the way that you so wholeheartedly love them.
Don’t stay with the person who claims to wants to be more than friends with you, but never does anything to prove their intentions. This is the person who would keep you on a string; the person who would constantly keep your hopes up, but would never ever give you everything that you need from them. This is the person who likes the idea of just stringing you along for the ride, but would never let you take hold of the wheel. Don’t stay with the person who keeps you as some sort of trophy; some sort of proof of their own personal validation. Don’t stay with the person who promises the world to you but gives you nothing. Don’t stay with the person constantly demands all of your time and attention but never gives you the same kind of respect or devotion in return. Don’t stay with the person who is clearly dealing with some serious emotional baggage and is merely using you as some sort of rebound or distraction.
Don’t stay with the person who deliberately serves as a roadblock to your dreams. This person is so selfish to the point where they have no regard for the things that you want to accomplish in life. They really couldn’t care less about your personal ambitions because the only things that matter to them are the things that directly benefit their own lives and desires. Don’t stay with the person who cares only about what you can do for them, but not really about who you are as an individual.
The truth is that you deserve the love that you genuinely want for yourself and you don’t have to settle for anything that fails to meet your own standards. The truth is that love is a give and take and you don’t have to always be the one who is constantly giving. The truth is that you shouldn’t have to be with someone who refuses to embrace the grind of the romance and the relationship with you. The truth is that you need to be with someone who is there for you someone you can always rely on. This is someone who appeases all of your insecurities.
