21 Signs You’re With A Great Boyfriend

Being in a relationship is a very challenging thing. Things get messy, people’s feelings get hurt, and so forth. Those committed to each other have to go through various forms of tests and fights. Misunderstandings and disappointments arise much too often, which have to be resolved. Many things need to be considered when involved in a relationship. But despite all that, if you have a boyfriend who will understand you no matter how cranky you get, a guy that will love and accept you all his heart and soul all of that and more can be the best signs that you have a great boyfriend.

Telling if he is just in it for his own pleasure or whether he really loves you and cares about you, it can be a bit confusing sometimes. Human intentions are pretty multi-faceted, so it is always best to have some clues to the meanings they might or might not hold.

For that purpose, here we sum up some basic signs that can help you give an idea that your boyfriend is not just holding on to you for the fun of it, but is a good guy with genuine feelings of care and affection for you.

1. He is your biggest fan

They say when your man is not your biggest fan, he is not your man, to begin with. This is to say that when the best of things and circumstances knock on your door, your guy is the first one who is there for you, who appreciates you in all the ways he can, who shows how proud he is of you and all that you have accomplished and the first one to celebrate your good moments with you.

When you feel down, he will be the first one to cheer you up. In a way, he will idolize you with all the best of what he has to offer you. He may not hold the cheerleading pompoms for you but he will still be the first one to tell everyone else about your tiniest to biggest successes and achievements.

He will make you feel like the center of attention, the one under the spotlight, and a superstar. That is only because he appreciates your growth as a person and wants you to never forget that someone out there is actually proud of your accomplishments in life.

2. He will be highly supportive, even in the losing moments

True support does not come by cheering when you win only. What matters more than that is holding on to faith in the other person especially in tough times, when the loss is the only thing one sees.

Those tough times are indeed times for trying and the fact that your guy stands up for you in those moments proves how great he is. Instead of losing faith in you, he will only build you back up, harden your resolve and make you get back up on the track and try again.

Even when you fail, he will be there to hold the heavyweight of defeat with you but at the same time, he will make you stronger to fight again the next day. His support will always keep you motivated, even when you yourself start to doubt yourself. Know how great your boyfriend actually is when he makes you feel like a winner even when you tell yourself you are nothing more than a pathetic loser.

He truly and deeply cares for you and wants to see you get the best out of everything life has to offer and so, he will always provide you his resilient support and confidence, no matter how tough things might get.

3. He always keeps in touch

Imagine being away from your guy but waking up to his sweet good morning texts and sleeping to his warm declarations of love and care. Whether it is asking you if you have taken your meals on time or whether it is just a simple hello, your guy will not fail to text or call you. He will keep you updated on his doings and whereabouts, even if he is busy or out with friends.

If he wants, he would not even bother to do so but it is only because he is a great guy that he sees the necessity in keeping in touch with you, no matter the distance between you two. Your conversations might not be the usual length, but love will still be there.

By doing so, he is letting you know that no matter what he is doing, where he is going, and who he is with you is the one constant on his mind.

4. He will act as your own personal doctor

Health comes first as we have been told like a mantra since we were kids. And your boyfriend realizes this for your sake better than anyone else. A great one, at that, will make the effort to know all about your health conditions. When you get sick, he will take a mental note of which medicines you have to take.

He will memorize the sort of diet you should be on if you are a bit diet-conscious. He will never let you feel physically helpless when you are not on your best of days in terms of health. And even if he does not manage to do any of this, you will always know how much he cares about you by his concern for you and his ‘get well soon’ wishes.