1. Be Transparent
It’s not easy being completely transparent with someone you’ve just started a relationship with, but it’s essential. Better you than some fiendish person trying to ruin your relationship. If you have anything about your past that haunts you, spit it out, don’t keep things for later, the more transparent you are with your partner the healthier the relationship becomes. It’s going to take a lot of effort but it’s completely worth it.
2. Your Age
This is one of the most delicate topics for women, but it’s essential to let it out, do not lie about your age before the relationship. If he is interested, age won’t matter, if you’re insecure about revealing your age, it would only make him doubt you, and once he doubts you on this, he will very quickly doubt you on something else. Keep it transparent with the birth dates.
3. Your Take On Sports
Don’t take me wrong, ladies, men love the sight of a woman who’s into sports, but they know most ladies don’t like sports as much as they do. So if you’re not into sports and your man is raving about it, don’t pretend to like it. If he’s watching a game and it’s of no interest to you, tell him. You don’t have to sit through his hours of TV time and also feel weird and uncomfortable while doing it, he’s going to Know by the way you pretend to like it and that’ll be a huge turn off for him. Be realistic and truthful, Remember this, only true feelings can keep a relationship alive.
4. Your Past Intimacy
Most women would disagree with this, but men respect women who are open about their past relationships. If you hide your previous intimacy with your ex, he will get skeptical. If you’re open about it and tell him exactly as it is before the relationship, he will always trust you. A big no Is when women bring up their past sex lives in the middle of a relationship, that just breaks all Boundaries of trust and ultimately the relationship itself.
5. Your Cooking Abilities
Cooking skills – most women think it is highly essential if they pose as a good cook when they Can’t make a decent meal. Don’t promise him Italian meals and exotic dishes when you can’t make them. It’s okay if a woman can’t cook properly, both of you are together to better each other In every walk of life, but if you lie about things it can very well cost you in the future.
6. Life After Marriage
It’s a massive misconception in women that if they bring up the topic of marriage, it will instantly Scare the man away. That’s not true. If your relationship is as strong as you think it is, it should be very comforting to talk about a future together. We are all in relationships to make a better life for ourselves. Why wait and be scared? Tell him how you want to be after marriage, your Goals in life, the house you would want to buy with him, the kids you want to have. Open up!
7. Your Take On His Inner Circle
Ladies, if you don’t like the company your man keeps, tell him. Have your reasons ready, make sure they’re valid. He won’t disagree if you talk from a practical point of view. If you think the friends he’s with are using him or are generally bad people, tell him about it thoroughly. But make sure you are gentle with your words, don’t make it seem like you’re forcing it on him, let him make his own decisions but let your feelings be known.
8. About His Female Friends
It’s human nature to feel possessive about the ones you love. Ladies, if your man has a lot of female friends and he’s a little too friendly with them, let him know. If it’s coming to the point where you’re always thinking about him hanging out with his female friends, and you’re worried about it, let it be known that you’re not okay with it. If he loves you, he won’t even argue about it and stop hanging out with them.
9. Don’t Hide The Ex
If your ex is still in touch with you for some reason, it might be wrong not to tell your man all about it. It’s better to tell him than him accidentally seeing him call you on the phone or read your messages. Keep it all in the open, don’t keep such things from your guy, he is yours to keep, and he deserves to know. This works both ways.
10. The Real You
It’s okay to cover yourself in make-up and to act the way he wants you to but to a certain extent. If you hide the real you for an extended period, it might go very badly for you. He loves you for who you are not for who you’re trying to be. Guys love nothing more than a lady who’s true to herself and then to them. Keep it real, ladies.