Do you know why do older men like younger women? Well, I would like to tell you age, is just a number and when it comes to love, it’s fairly common that a lot of people get together in spite of their age disparities. We see it in people we know and even on mainstream media.
Is there really anything wrong with that? Well, to these people, there isn’t. And also, it’s fairly common that the man is usually the older one in this scenario. Aren’t you curious as to why that is?
Why is it more common to see older men in a relationship with younger women than it is for women to be the older ones? What gives?
What is it about the man always has to be the older one? The age disparities can even go as far as 15 or 20 years.
A lot of us might wonder just why women would want to get into relationships with older men and why men would prefer to be with younger women. This topic is especially puzzling considering that a lot of these women are much younger than these men.
Well, if you’re just as curious as we are about this issue, then you’ve definitely come to the right article. Research has shown that there are 12 possible reasons as to why men tend to chase younger women.
1. A younger woman is better in the bedroom.
A younger woman is mostly known to be better in the bedroom because she is seen as someone more energetic and vivacious. She is seen as someone who exhibits more life and energy. That’s why men think they would be better in the bedroom. Also read 13 Things You Do Which Really Satisfy A Woman In The Bedroom
2. He may be going through a mid-life crisis.
He might just be going through a midlife crisis, so he wants to be trying to hold on to his youth. He will want to keep on doing things that will make him feel younger than he is; such as dating other women.
3. Most men find younger women more beautiful.
A lot of men are going to think that younger women are much more beautiful than older women. It’s just a beauty standard that is commonly perpetuated in contemporary media. People are made to think that younger means better. Also read 9 Women Who Look 20 Years Younger Than They Really Are.
4. He might not be looking for a long-term arrangement.
Sometimes, a mature man is going to want to be with a younger woman because she would be more open to the idea of a short-term fling or a casual arrangement. He might not be looking for anything serious and that’s not what older women tend to look for. Also read 10 Reasons Why He Might Be Good For Now But Terrible For Long Term
5. Men want what they can’t have.
It’s common knowledge that a much older man shouldn’t really be dating a woman who is a lot younger than him. A lot of these men will think that younger women are forbidden fruit. And it makes the chase a little more enticing. Also read The Top 8 Things That Men Want In Relationships
6. Younger women tend to be more experimental.
If a guy happens to be in the mood for experimenting in bed, then it’s likely that he’s going to have more luck with a younger lady. She will be much more open to experimenting in the bedroom.
7. Younger women have fewer demands.
At the end of the day, an older woman is always going to demand a lot more from her relationships. She has been around the block and knows exactly what she wants. By contrast, a younger woman is someone who will be a little more lenient and easygoing. Compared to an older woman, she won’t be too hard to please. Also read 7 Things All Strong Women Demand From Men In Relationships
8. Younger women will have other things going for them.
A younger woman will typically have a lot of things going on for her. She will be looking to set up the foundation for her future, which will keep her busy. That means that she won’t put too much pressure on the relationship.
9. He might be looking for someone he can control.
It’s no secret that many young women will turn to an older man for advice and leadership. That’s why older men want to look for younger women when they want to be in a relationship with someone they can control and steer. Also read 10 Signs He’s a Controlling Guy
10. He sees it as an ego booster.
An older man will often see a younger woman as a kind of prize or trophy that he can show off to the world. He will treat her as a kind of confidence booster for him. Also read 7 signs his ego is more important than the relationship
11. He has fewer chances of being rejected.
Many younger women just prefer to be with older men these days. And that means there are fewer chances of him being rejected by a younger woman. Also read 13 Things Women Will Just Never Understand About Men
This is ignorance at its finest. I’m sorry it goes both ways. How bout older men who date younger women have nothing to offer a women his age and youth just wants his money is more like the truth.
Skorned level 10
You go Dalia💋
SO<, SO TRUE! He has a few chances of being rejected! As the OLD SOUL, WILL be their Providing! USED AND ABUSED LIKE WAYS! Not on!
Totally agree with Dalia here! This article is a load of tosh!
Totally agree with Dalia here! This article is a load of tosh!
They are in it for the money and security. Nice home and adoration.
Surely the question is why do younger women desire older men? Sociologists have a word for it – HYPERGAMY.
#3 is the only reason … and #5 my wife assures me that it’s WOMEN not men who want what they can’t have. Most older men that date younger women want a lasting relationship. It’s been 23 years now, by far the longest relationship of my life (married 21 years) age gap 24 years
Insecure man!
This post is entirely negative. I 100 percwnt disagree with this article. As im a younger woman dating an older man who happens to be my soulmate. We have similar goals, similar stages of our lives, we treat each other with respect and we love each other deeply.
Doesn’t matter if your mate is older or younger. Hopefully, that younger person will understand that when people get older things aren’t the same performance wise. Older person needs to understand that too. I’ve seen many couples call it quits due to this problem. If they can be mature enough to look past it, I believe there could be a lasting relationship.
100%it’s just for money and security
Ummm…older women are way better in bed! WAY BETTER!
I agree. 100%
For me it isn’t just about the woman being younger, most women my age look 25-30 years older than me. Another benefit of a younger woman is they haven’t got the baggage and don’t have grown kids who will hate you because you aren’t their dad. I have a nice home, money in the bank and travel and treat and respect a younger lady better than younger guys could.
Married at 18 to a man 12 yr my senior, I knew I did not want a ‘boy’- were sweethearts for 54 yr til he passed…Have had now had it the opposite- considerably younger men than myself…experience+ adventure travel hand in hand- as well, as mature women have a capacity for depth that a younger gal just has not, due to lack of life experience. There is a lot of truth to ‘aged like fine wine.’ It’s a lot more than ‘bang for your buck…’ Shallow is hollow, in either scenarios.
#9 and #10 is all you needed to publish. They say it all.
I lost my husband to a much younger female. She is poor. He has money. I live in Mexico where a young lady will gladly take an old man AS LONG AS HE HAS LOTS OF MONEY. I guess that modern love? I find it disturbing. And if an old man tells you that he’s happy “helping” young poor women. Then why don’t they sponsor her and send her to school. Nope. He just wanted a fresh young body and a young brain that he can mold to his liking. And she is just happy to finally have some money. And she is happy to pay for it with sex. I find it disturbing and sad
I am 67 years old man. I have loved a young girl for 3 ½ years. Spoiled her, supported her and taken care of her.
She grew up in a home with alcoholism and drug abuse.
Have only been in the same room together on 3 occasions. Her home is 300+ miles from mine.
When we first met, she was 17 years old. About to finish high school. She turned 21 this month.
I paid much of her college books, bought her clothes and jewelry, and paid medical bills. Given her money to travel. Motivated, inspired and guided her, praised her, and loved her. Have told her I love her 1,000 times.
She has worked at least 30 hours a week for as long as I have known her. Completed college in less than 4 years. Suma Cum Laude.
Before she finished college, she was offered a job with a salary of $70,000, health insurance and company car. From where she lives that is like winning the lottery.
Last weekend her “boyfriend” of 6 years proposed. She accepted. A very fine young man. Upper middle-class family. She has never dated another boy/man.
She is the sweetest person I have ever met. Works hard in all she does. Loyal and driven. She has often said “I want to be somebody.”
She is “somebody!”
To me she has given my life purpose and joy. An absolute thrill to have created a legacy with her that will be with her the rest of her life.
She is stunningly beautiful in body and poise and heart.
Would I like to touch her? YES!!! I have prayed to God for the opportunity to take a walk with her, to hold her hand. To feel her heartbeat. For her to feel what I feel inside for her. Will never happen.
My wife and I raised 6 children. We have 8 grandsons.
My children are successful. I am proud of them. They grew up in a stable environment. Had supportive parents.
I have never felt the pride and love for any person that I feel for her. To become what she has become. To travel so far.
No one knows of our relationship. No one in her life or mine.
What a blessing to witness.