1. Your instincts are telling you that even though you have so many other options, you don’t want to be entertaining any of them. Yes, there are so many other fish in the sea; but that doesn’t matter much to you. You want this particular fish; and you want to fight to make sure that you get to keep this fish in your life no matter how hard or difficult it might be to do so.
2. Whenever your thoughts turn to the idea of your partner actually being with someone else, you feel your insides start to dissolve into acid. You hate it. You get sick and you just want to erase that thought from your mind. You are incredibly possessive of your partner and you want to make sure that you are their only significant other – that no one else should ever come close.
3. The idea of being single again doesn’t really excite you or appeal to you. You aren’t really interested in putting yourself out there anymore. You don’t want o be back on those dating apps and hooking up with random people. You know that you’ve already found the one you want to be with forever; and you just don’t want to be throwing that away. As you reflect on your feelings, you realize that there are clear signs you’re ready for a relationship. The thought of committing to someone special feels exhilarating rather than daunting. You start to recognize the depth of your emotions and your desire to share your life with someone who truly understands you.
4. When you are trying to envision a future for yourself, you just can’t manage to do so without thinking of your partner being there with you as well. It’s as if you’re virtually incapable of having a future without this person next to you. You don’t want a future wherein you are forced to face the world alone or with another partner. You want the person that you’re already with.
5. When it comes to wasting time; you never use the word “waste” when you’re with this person. The two of you could just be lounging around the house in your pajamas all day and you would still be able to consider it a productive day. You always LOVE spending time with this person even when you aren’t really doing the most amazing things. Even when you’re fighting, you don’t really mind; so as long as you both are still in each other’s lives.
6. You have a broken relationship that has seen its fair share of battles. And you have had some pretty epic fights. But even though things have gotten really intense between the two of you, neither of you have ever really gone overboard. You still make it a point to always stay conscious of what you’re saying. You always make it a point to watch your words because even though you’re angry, you still ultimately care about the person that you’re fighting with.
7. You adore the familiarity that comes with being with your partner. Even something as simple as having their natural scent and fragrance around all of the time has become very comforting for you. You are able to find peace, safety, and sanctuary in this person even when your relationship has been particularly less than ideal lately. This bond thrives on strong communication in a relationship, which allows both partners to express their thoughts and feelings openly. Having those honest conversations helps to navigate the challenging moments and reinforces the emotional connection that you both cherish. It’s this mutual understanding that ultimately strengthens your partnership, even through tough times. As you navigate through these challenges, you recognize the importance of signs to rebuild trust after betrayal. Your desire to nurture the bond you once shared drives you to communicate more openly and work towards forgiveness. Each small step you take together becomes a testament to your commitment to healing and understanding one another.
8. You hate each other at the moment. You are really angry at one another. And there might be even times wherein you just want to rip each other’s heads off. But even when you’re both at your angriest, you still always stay cool enough to maintain your respect for one another. You know that your respect for each other is always going to endure; that it is always going to be uncompromisingly strong.
9. If you’re still physically attracted to your partner, then that’s definitely something that is worth holding on to. There are so many couples that just stop making an effort with how they look for one another; but if you’re still able to maintain that simple luxury in your relationship, then that’s always a good thing – no matter how broken your relationship might be. Maintaining physical attraction can be a strong foundation for deeper connection and intimacy. To further nurture this aspect of your relationship, consider incorporating some relationship building tips, such as scheduling regular date nights or trying new activities together. These efforts can help reinforce your bond and reignite the spark that originally brought you together.
10. Okay, so there hasn’t been much smiling in your relationship lately – and that’s why it’s broken. But you still can’t deny the fact that your partner is always going to have the power to make you smile. Your partner is someone who always manages to bring brightness and joy into your life so as long as they put a little more effort into it. It’s important to recognize that even in challenging times, there are ways to rekindle that spark. Communication is key; discussing the dynamics of your relationship can help identify the 5 warning signs in relationships that may be affecting your happiness. By addressing these issues together, you can work towards a brighter and more joyful partnership.
11. You are still proud to have your partner at your side whenever you are out in public together or when you’re interacting with other people. You still have a partner that you can look at and be proud of. This isn’t a human being you would want to hide or separate yourself from. In fact, you want to be as close and as attached to this person as possible – even when things aren’t going so well in your relationship.
12. You don’t really find it nice when other people flirt with you. Why? Because you’re only ever really interested when one particular person is flirting with you. And that’s your partner.
All of the point I read here are all true about my relationship presently, but does this mean i should keep trying to make things work even with the constant hurt i get from him? Cause am honestly tired of trying tho
you know it sounds like to me there’s a lot of immaturity and so it’s going to take a lot of patience and forgiveness to continue in the relationship much longer. the thing about patience it’s just an overflow of peace if you have a peace about you patience is just there but if you have no peace which it sounds like you don’t then your patients won’t be there and that’s what it’s going to take. but also has a lack of purpose in most couples lives. when you figure out life is bigger than you or me and you figure out wow, we are together not to fix each other or even to fulfill one another but to bring out the best in one another by love and joy and peace to fulfill a purpose. if you’re together and you want to be together the rest of your life and you’re supposed to be but for what if it’s just about me, me me you’re here to fulfill that hole in my heart that I was born with well everybody’s going to let you down nobody has that in them to do for one everybody else has a hole in their heart. God has left something out of everything so he would be needed that’s why there’s a negative to every positive if the product is broken you take it to the manufacturer we’re born broken and so the manufacturer of course is the creator. but what purpose are you together for? because life is bigger than you and the two of you there should be something a certain people that moves you moves your compassion stirs you to help and when couples realize that when they realize oh, this is why we’re together it’s not just about us we’re to be a team that becomes one and we’re like the tip of a sharp arrow to do this thing that’s the only way it’s going to get done is if people do it. so that’s my take. I know my purpose and when I met someone I asked what their purpose was and can you handle this purpose in my life they they said yes I would love to okay and because of that we have endured some pretty heated very heated actually conflicts. And so the third thing I would add is nothing is as serious as it first feels. every feeling has a price. so give it an hour a half a day or a day and you’re probably walk up and look at one another and laugh that’s what we do we realize how immature selfish non-important that topic was that opinion that addicted to being right. see love has no needs no agenda and when you walk in pure love it has no need and there’s no need to be respected or to be right or to be heard or anything it just wants to give. and so it helps when you take everything lightly nothing is as serious as it first feels, it’s the old saying, angels have wings because they learn to take themselves lightly, ha, isn’t that good?
Same applies here…… Love hurt
This fits me perfectly and I am sharing with him.
Does giving ur husband enough six’s is good for ur relationship
yes of course! keep your man happy and he will want to do the same. More importantly, dont let him always be the one to initiate first. Men like it when you show interest that you want them too!
100% if the woman doesn’t initiate it makes men feel like it’s a one sided effort. It will make men wonder if your wife feels the same way towards you.
thank you
Wooowee I needed this read. Things have been straight brutal for the last few months. Just wish I could actually be heard and understood.
all the this are here are true about our relationship ..but consultantly getting hurt is tha bad thing
your are very right, cos it is everything being mentioned is realy happening with me, so now what should i do to win him back
this is me, i dont want any except my partner. even we have fight many many times, the dis appointment ,anger,tears,and so on ..i still love him coz i dont want to waste any thing that we have made in our relationship. im still fighting for it..
everything is talking to me