Break these bad habits before they break you…
There’s no need for you to be the cause of your own destruction when it comes to your love life, ladies. Too often, a lot of women will get caught in the trap of stopping themselves from finding success in love without them realizing it. Be careful that you never end up as that kind of person. You may be experiencing a string of bad relationships and you can’t figure out why. Little did you know that you are the cause of all of it.
You have to understand that you are the common denominator in all of your failed relationships and you have to consider the possibility that you are the root of the problem. Not to say that you are never going to find success in love eventually. It’s just that maybe there are some bad habits that you need to break in order for you to really get out of the hole. But, you can never be able to correct yourself if you don’t know that the problem exists.
You need to be able to take a good hard look at yourself. Be objective in the analysis of your personality and try to see yourself from the perspectives of other people. How would you react if you met you? How would you feel about getting into a relationship with yourself? Would you be comfortable?
These might be difficult questions to answer but no one ever said that love would be easy. You must always gain a better understanding of yourself before you can actually address whatever problems are failing you. Still having a difficult time? No worries. This is what this article is for. Read on through and be guided about the common problem areas that most people have with their personalities that prevent them from finding success in love.
Here are some common habits that you need to break if you want to have a happy and healthy relationship with someone.
1. You say no a little too often.
Of course you want to stay guarded and protective of yourself. It’s only natural that you adhere to basic principles of self-preservation. It’s the only way that you’re going to survive in this world. However, that doesn’t mean you should be depriving yourself of any opportunities to go beyond your comfort zone. You should always be willing to live life on the edge whenever necessary. You have to be able to live life dangerously every once in a while. You can’t afford to keep yourself locked up in your little box of comfort. Love is a risk and you’re always going to have to be able to risk getting hurt if you want to find success in your relationships.
2. You think too far ahead.
Stop going into every single date with the thought of marriage or long-term relationships in time. Sometimes, it pays to just take things one step at a time. Your overeager nature and aggressiveness can get the best of you a lot of the time. You can come off as very intimidating to the people you date because you are always thinking so far ahead. You tend to forget to just live in the moment and just take things as they come. – Continue reading on the next page
3. You treat relationships like games you have to win.
You play hard-to-get because you think that’s how you’re going to win the game. You try to distance yourself and you act cold because you think that adds to your illusion of mystery. However, you fail to notice that a lot of modern daters just aren’t into playing games anymore. They aren’t looking to date people who aren’t open and mature about their feelings. You can’t afford to keep treating dates as games if you really want to climb out of that hole of singlehood.
4. You rely too much on your sexual prowess.
Sex can only take you so far in a relationship. If you think that your abilities and skills in the bedroom will be enough to make people fall in love with you, then you have another thing coming. You have to know that relationships are so much more than just sex. There are so many facets to a relationship that transcend physical intimacy. You also have to establish an emotional connection with your partner if you want a relationship to be sustainable.
5. You give in to all the white noise surrounding your relationship.
Sometimes, there’s just a little too much chatter in your dating life. While it can be good to listen to third-party perspectives every once in a while, you shouldn’t be so quick to give in to their opinions. You still have full control of your life and you can’t afford to relinquish that control to other people. Take ownership of your life and relationships. Be accountable for your choices and your actions. Do what you want with your relationships and just own up to the repercussions.
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